Expert: Kate Rosling - 9/30/2010

Question
I've been in a relationship with my best friend for 3 years now, and not only I love her, but we support each other through everything and she has made me a better person than I ever thought I could be...I have cheated on her twice already and she knows and she stayed I always tell her EVERYTHING. However I still feel like doing it again! I just don't understand! I do believe in having sex with other people if I don't actually love them because I have already chosen her. But she doesn't...and I fell that if I do, I will tell her just like the other times...and she won't stay...she told me so. I really don'twant to hurt her anymore. I love and care and look up to her so much...and thereis nothing wrong with us when it comes to sex. Im starting to think I'm an awful person...any advice? should I cheat and hide it? should I not to? how?

Answer
Hi Demian.

Hmm this is a tough situation.  I would sya if your really love her then you would respect her wishes.  You shouldn't cheat on your girlfriend in the first place, but it happens, I understand.  But do you want to risk losing her?  If you think you can hide it, then you may try that if your urge is really to strong, but you may face the consequences after.

It is really up to your hearts desire.