Expert: Don - 12/24/2007

Question
Hi, i am a 22 year old man, who Loved his girlfriend with all my heart all my soul, last 2 months, my GF wanted a break, because she did not know what she wanted, she loved me dearly but since she started hanging out with bad crowd she wanted to have affairs. I broke up with her 5 days, before our anniversary, and hoping she will come back to me, because i made same mistake 6 months earlier i had planned to see this girl but never did, and cut all ties with her, so i expected her do the same and come back to me. I found out, that she been  with this guy that i suspected all along, on our Anniversary. I was so Devastated, hurt Mental break down, i could not belive she could have done such a thing, after she admitted she made a terrible mistake, for 3 days straight she was begging and asking for forgives, and that she can not live with out me. So i was naive, because i loved her so much, i forgave her, and told her, to not ever see that guy again, even though i did not want to get hurt again and forgive her, she was begging and crying. So i did, ONLY A WEEK LATER, i find out while i was working Friday nights, she attended her best friends B-day party, and cheated on me again with the same guy, and whodunit admit it , and i knew, even before other people told me. I'm so heart broken, i have such hate for this women, then i don't know how i can go on, I LOVED HER SO MUCH, THAT THIS IS WORST PAIN  i ever felt. i feel used betrayed, i need help!!!Please give me some advice, everyone from our circle is shocked, and are all on my side and feel for me, she even said she only likes the guy as a friend, and what she had, was one bad mistake. She has Pride know, but i know she will be crawling back to me, after 2 3 weeks , BUT I WILL NOT TAKE HER BACK EVER!!! i just have so much pain anger, i can not eat or sleep, this is a Disease, how can i Cure it! please!

Answer
You need to move on and start dating other people, the quickest way to get over her is to get with a new girl and have her replace your ex in your time and heart. You can't think about how much she hurt you if you're spending your time having fun with a new better girl.