Expert: Amanda L. - 10/18/2003

Question
Hi Amanda
im  not  much  into  relationships  so  i  want  to  know  how  to  pick  up  women  for  one  night  stands  and  casual  flings  without  using  crappy  pick  up  lines.
in  your  experience  what  have  guys  said  or  done  to  you  that  made  you  want  to  have  flings  with  them? was  it  there  attitude  or  the  way  they  looked  or  the  way  they  spoke?
oh  and  threesomes  could  a  guy  score  two  chicks  for  a  fling  or  is  it  just  wishful  thinking?
cheers


Answer
Dimitre,

You have to have confidence. Guys with confidence(not egotism) are really attractive. You have to be smooth. Be intune to what a woman wants. Slight touching(not groping) like if you're in a club and the music is really loud, you're talking to chick, you obviously have to be right by her ear, so put your hand on her waist while you're talking. Don't do it right away though cuz it could send the wrong message.
Don't use a crappy pick up line as you sed, just walk up and introduce yourself. She'll tell you her name and then you're in. Be sure to ask about her, women hate it when questions starting off, aren't about her(I don't understand it but thats the way it works). Other than that,just be smooth, keep eye contact. You have to think you're sexy for other women to think you're sexy.

Oh and yea it is just wishful thinking. Most threesomes come if you're in a relationship and you get your girlfriend to agree to a threesome.

Amanda L.