Expert: Don - 9/11/2007

Question
Hi,
My GF cheated on me with her ex boyfriend. She did this once and I have proves that it didnt happen more than that in our relation which is exactly 1 year old.
She told me that it was a mistake but i know she was planning it for quite some time. When I confronted her she said it was a huge mistake and that she needed another chance to prove her love. I gave her a condition to regain my trust and I asked for access to all her emails and chatting programs which she uses all the time to communicate with eveybody and she agreed. She said she will do what ever it takes to sort this thing out and I kinda believe her. She's been crying like crazy the past 2 days and I handeled her very calmly when I was confronting her. Problem is that I keep on thinking about what happened all the time. I cant spend an hour without thinking of her or of what she did. I seek your advice please. Is there something I should do to make me  feel better? and how do we satrighten this thing up?  

Answer
There isn't like a magic way or any words that I can give you to make you just feel better, it's going take time. You just have to give her some time to regain your trust and prove that she won't do it again. After awhile you'll stop being so untrusting of her if she doesn't cheat again, you'll be able to get back to normal.

It just takes some time, just wait a little while and you'll start to feel better.