Expert: Sam E - 2/28/2007

Question
There is a girl in our class, well, yeah, as you can see from my subject, she thinks she's all that... I mean she is not that pretty, well, filipino guys here  think she is... lol

Well, anyways, she is with a relationship with this guy, and they have been together for a year and a month.
Ever since they got together, she has been cheating on him with other guys...

First, she cheated on him with his cousin.
Next, she cheated on him with another guy.
Of cousre, he found out, and he has done absolutely NOTHING about it. I have told him about her ways many times but he does not listen to me at all...

I do not know how to handle her! she also talks behind people's backs, and she ALWAYS talks about me, telling everyone Im the bad girl... but, this is not true....

Everytime i see her, I wanna slap her face and let her suffer the pain she has given my friend (her boyfriend) and all the other people.

How do I do this? How do I prove she is a slut? How do I prove she is always lieng?

I need help on this, and I need it fast!!!

Please help me!!!

Answer
The best thing you can do is ignore her. By getting upset by her and her behavior, you give her strength. She sees your irritation as jealously of her. The best way to deal with it is to act like she doesn’t bother you at all. Act as if you could careless- she doesn’t matter. Not only will that make her wonder why your not paying attention to her (even negative attention is attention) it will make you look like the better woman. If she is cheating and acting like a hussy it will get out. You don’t need to say or do a thing. If you try and say something it will only make you look bad. Just ignore her. Be the better lady. Guys will see this and be more attracted to you than to a girl who runs around acting like a stuck up slut!
~Sam