Expert: RITA - 10/6/2004

Question
My boyfriend of two years cheated on me with a 15 year old runaway I was letting stay at my house for about a month (he's 22.) He was going to break up with me for her and told me he would cheat on her with me. He eventually decided that I wasn't worth losing and made her leave, but how do I ever trust him again. Now he says how sorry and how stupid he is to do that, but it's been over a month and I still picture them having sex in my house (once while I was passed out in the other room.) I do love him and he always told me he loved me, but I don't know how to get past the cheating. HELP!

Answer
You've gotten past it when you forgave him and stayed with him....get it????
You will either let it eat at you forever, or let it go...obviously he's with you right?
As the saying goes, "one mistake, shame on you...twice the mistake...shame on me"....so if he does it again, you know where you stand.