Expert: Don - 4/3/2007

Question
I have been married for 5 years and have a 2 year old daughter. I recently found some e mails he had sent to his ex girlfriend telling her that whenever he reads her e mails he feel like kissing her, or that whenever he goes back to his country he would like her to spend the night with him. I confronted him and told me that it was his first girlfriend and that he has good memories of their relationship. He told me it was nothing , that he loves me. I'm still very hurt... I am always thinking about how he might still be in loved with her. Do you think he would like to go back with her??? or does he really loves me?? he has been nice to me, really nice may I say. But he won't talk about it anymore...  please help, what should I do?? I don't trust him anymore.

Answer
You shouldn't trust him at all, despite her being his first girlfriend and having special memories with her, he shouldn't be saying that he wants to kiss another woman or wants to spend a night with any other woman except you being his wife.

If I was you I would watch him carefully and keep and out on him because you already knows he has intentions of cheating, it is only a matter of time before he actually goes through with it. So protect yourself and keep an eye on him.

I hope this helped