Expert: Don - 6/25/2007

Question
I have been divorce now for a couple of years now. Recently my ex has been telling me when she goes out
with the "girls". I think she is trying to tell me that
she is seeing someone, not that she is cheating. I think
she has a right to see others. Why would she start to tell
me that she is going out when it is none of my business?
Thanks for the help.

Answer
Your ex is telling you these things for one of two reasons.

First reason is she still has feelings for you and is trying to make you jealous in the weird hope that you'll be so jealous that she might be out with another man and you'll want her back.

The second reason is she's finally over you and wants you to know that she is moving on with her life.

My advice is just to humor her and listen to what she has to say, unless it really  bothers you, if it really bothers you just tell her to stop.

I hope this helped and good luck.