Expert: Don - 11/11/2007

Question
I want to know if my girlfriend of a year now is cheating on me. In actuality I have known her for about 3 years. While we were dating I was also with other girls and she knew that, but this past year we have been actually together, she tells me she loves and wants to be with me forever, but this guy she has known for, I guess for 7 years kissed her at the club one day and I found out about it on myspace because we had each others passwords. One day I seen a text message on her phone that was from him, and I looked through her phone and found out that they had been texting all day while she was at work. One day at her step brother's b-day party she was looking at this guy like she liked him a lot and I they were texting back and forth that night too. I read another one of her text messages to him and it said that she wanted to chill with him and get into his hot tub with him, and also have lunch with him. I asked her if she liked anyone else and she told me no, but I don't know about this. Right now she met this rapper guy and she texts him back and forth too calling him sexy and that she misses and him. I know shes not cheating on me because we are with each other all the time. I love her very much and I want to marry this girl, but what should I do, I mean do you think she has cheated on me, plan to? I don't know what to think.

Answer
I think she probably already has cheated on you and if she hasn't she's making plans to cheat on you soon. Why else would she be calling other men sexy and making plans to get into hot tubs with them. And why would she spending all night texting other men if she didn't have something going on with them.

Face it your girl is cheating.