Expert: Sam E - 5/29/2007

Question
Almost every single relationship I've ever been in, I have been cheated on, or lied to. I'm sick of it, can you just tell me how to not feel ANYTHING anymore? Not love, or even care for the person I'm with, and not care about humans in general? And don't give me crap saying I should hang in there and keep my feelings, I've tried for three years. THREE YEARS.

Answer
Although it can be easy to blame it on  human evilness, fact is, you seem to attract these type of men. It is easy to see how one can start to feel jaded by it. Like a cop who sees evil all day and starts to think all people are evil, you seem to find it in the people you date.  
Make it stop. It starts with your self-esteem and self-worth. Usually “bad” people pick up on vibes sent out by others with low self-esteem. They prey on those type of people.
It not humans that you need to stop caring and loving for, it's you that needs to start caring and loving for you!
When you start to feel good about yourself, you wont allow yourself to get caught up with the wrong people. You won’t allow them to walk on you. You’ll tell to hit the road!  Think about it. I bet with all the “evil” men that came your way they gave you some sort of bad feeling. Your gut instinct told you something was wrong.
When you start to focus on you and making  your life better, you’ll find that the people that you allow in your life are good honest people!
Work on you. Forget guys and relationships!  Do whatever it takes to make yourself feel and look better! Go back to school, change jobs, work out, get new clothes whatever it takes! When your on track the right one will come along! Get a bad feeling, run like hell!!
Hope this helps,
sam