How to Deal With Cheaters/Please help me, I think she's cheating on me PLEASE HELP!
Expert: Don - 9/8/2007
QuestionPlease read carefully and help me, I am so hurt and i dont know what to do,
first I want to tell you a story of mine - in 2002 I was dating a girl 10 years younger than me, when she went to college i had a strong feeling like something was happening, so i went to this woman that knows how to read the tarot and she told me that there was a love triangle with a guy in college, i got so upset that i called the guy and told him that my girlfriend told me the truth and they he told me what was happening and that she told him that me and her were done, I asked him not to talk and we called her on a 3way line and thats how i catched her, so the woman was right about my girlfriend and she was right about my boss getting fired and all the work passing to me, the tarot woman also said that i would meet someone older than me like in her 40's and that i was going to fall inlove with her and that her last realtionship ended very bad, she also said that I would be spending a lot of time in her house with her daughter and that I would met her on the job..and guess what, last year I met a 42 year old woman that started working at my job when i saw her I was crazy about her, she got divorced last year, so.. this is my problem, last night I went to this woman that reads the tarot because i had so many doubts, she told me things that are happening now, things that will happen and things that already happened, she told me that I shouldnt trust her and that the cards says that she is going out with someone, i started dating my girlfriend over a year ago, i stay in her house from monday to friday, then on friday i go and pick up my daughter and spend the weekend with my daughter, my girlfriend is 11 years older than me but she looks very good, we have sex every day (no lie) every weekend when i come home and I try to call her, she sounds like a little upset or something, when i'm at her place i try to find evidence, i check her cell phone and her house phone and i never find anything, if she's cheating she knows how to do it well, maybe she deletes the calls, I do find numbers with no names on her cell phone and her house phone, but I've never tried to call any of those numbers.... we work together, sometimes i pass by and she is always chatting with her friend online and sometimes she close the window, I have her password, she doesnt know it, and i dont see no man on her contact list, sometimes at work she talks on the phone with that friend like in secret, I know that is the same female-friend she is always talking to because sometimes she say her nick name, i think that friend knows all her secret, I need to find out, I need to have evidence because she is very smart, she would not admit anything unless you have proof, i am so inlove and i never cheated on her, she goes to talk to a Psychiatrist or Psychologist every monday many times i pick her up from over there and go home together
AnswerYou can trick her into telling you she cheated if you feel that strongly about her cheating. Just get a envelope and fill it up so it looks full and tell her you had her followed and that their are pictures of her inside with the other guy. Most people won't even ask you to show them the pictures if they are truly cheating, they'll just confess. And since the tarot lady is always right you know she is cheating.