Expert: Don - 7/21/2007

Question
My name is kshitij mehta i am from india i love a girl my age is 24 yrs and hers is 23.I met this girl on an education center where i was a teacher i purposely took her email address and then started chatting with her at first she said that shes not in love with me but as time passed by she said that we can be best friends but nothing more than that as her parents wouldnt agree for marriage and she doesnt want to go against her parents will.

Then thngs moved on and after 20 -25 days she also started saying that she is started to loving me because of my deep emotions towards her.Then later on she asked me to come to her home to teach her and introduced me to her family as a teacher.Now its almost 1 month that iv been going to her house we also have had some oral sex i cnt understand this girl because no matter what i say this girl doesnt wants to marry me aginst her parent's will and i also cant understand her parents who think of me as a teacher but have never asked me for any fees etc.(Although her father has called me as brother of the girl i dnt know why)

Sometimes i feel like im being framed and used whenever i ask her for marriage she repeats the same things that she cant go against her parent's will.I know that shes not worth of my love i love her more than anything but how do i get over i still have to decide whether i continue going to her house to teach her or not because its v difficult to be away.Plz help me take a decesion i am totally confused cant leave her and cant seem to get her.  

Answer
She obviously doesn't want to marry you or she wouldn't give you excuses. The best way to get over her is to stop coming around her. You shouldn't go over to her house anymore because all it is doing is teasing you. You should be able to tell by her excuses that she will never be apart of your life in a romantic way, so the best thing for you to do is cut her out of you life completely. Stop teaching her and stop going to her house all that's going to do is make you hurt even more.

I hope this helped and good luck