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How to Deal With Cheaters/Think Ma BF Isz ChEaTiiN

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well me n ma boyfriend have been 2getha 4 a month (ii kno not even a long time) well lately he doesnt hit me up anymore as much as he used to, says he isnt happy with his life so far so he wants to take absence in college this semester, seems different and it seems like he doesnt want to b wit me even thou he says he does.. well the question is do you think hes cheating on me i think he is bout i jus dont wanna believe it well thank u  

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I don’t really think he is cheating but he may just need some space. I suggest you give him time. Don’t get upset when he doesn’t call or come around as much. Try to be understanding.  The more you push him the more he’ll push away.  If things it worse flat out ask him if he wants to break up for awhile. He may want to break it off with you but doesn’t know how to say or do it.
Good luck and I hope this helps,
Sam

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Is he/she cheating? The signs of a cheater are obvious if you know what to look for. If you think your mate is cheating ask me. I can also help you heal after being cheated on. If you are thinking about cheating but need help so you will NOT, I can try and help you. Please do NOT ask me how to cheat and get away with it. Cheating is hurtful and I do not condone it.

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I have spent years studying relationships. I also have done some research on why people cheat and what to look for if you think they are.

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A degree in Psychology and certified in handling crisis and counseling

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