Expert: Bruce D. Frank - 11/13/2007

Question
i dont know if this site is for women only, but i just have to ask my question and it goes thus; my girlfriend of over seven yrs relationship suddenly stop coming to my place, changed her phone number and even her address. efforts to reach her through the sister, brother and even her friends prove futile.And it's been over two months, now. Should incase she resurface, should i accept her?

Psalm (Nigeria)

Answer
This site is not just for woman.  If you girlfriend has disappeared it is probably for a reason.  She has either found someone else and does not want to face you, or she is tired of some behavior or lack thereof on your part.  You know your relationship better than I, thus, you would have to look deeply into what has gone on over the past 7 years.  If she does show-up, I would ask her a lot of questions.  And always listen to your feelings and emotions about the truth.