Expert: Sam E - 3/20/2007

Question
well my boyfriend and i have had our pasts and his was way worse than mine! we met at work and been together ever since, we don't go to the same school and you could say that's been hard for us! we've been together for nine months now and i love him to death, but there's just something that he just can't believe anything i tell him or he just can't trust me period! it all started one day when i took a bath in the afternoon, and i knew i was going to go see him, when i got out of the shower the soap had given me the worst alergic reaction ever! the weird part is, that it was only all over my chest and no-where else. yeah you could say they looked like hickies but you could also see where i had been scratching from where it itched! i told my boyfriend as soon as i got out of the shower and he over exaderated! he broke up with me and told me he was never going to be able to trust me! we later got back together and then i got a scratch on my right cheek! my dog and i had been playing and she scratched me! my boyfriend also didn't believe me and the same thing happened again. then some girl at his school told him that i was talking to her boyfriend and that i wanted to go around with him. first of all i don't even talk to that guy and he is just super annoying he bothers me all the time! so if anything he's the one that must be after me.  he is super jealous and he doesn't like for me to talk to boys and i guess you could say i respect him.  so with that said he over did it when he broke up with me because of what that girl told him. so then ever since then he put some of boys to look after me in my school and they recently told him that i was talking to the same boy and that they have pictures of me with this guy! my b/f believed everything that they told him! and now he just can't trust me! he has people watching my every move! i really don't know what to do! i love him so much and now he can't trust me for something that people out of the ordaniry told him! i really need to hear it from someone else's point of view of weither i should stay with him or not! please advice me on my situation!

Answer
Relationships that don’t have trust and that keep ending and starting almost always will end permanently and in disaster! Your best bet is to just move on. Find someone else that is worth being with. These type of relationships are a waste of time.
Hope this helps you!
Sam