Expert: Sam E - 3/9/2007

Question
I fell for a girl 6 months ago and she for me.  We dated off and on for about 6 months.  About 2 months ago she got back with me and said she would break up with the girl she was dating. (yes, were all lesbians.)  The girl and her had a past  for the last year and even lived with each other for a while.  Well, this girl has been in Iraq the last 8 months and just got back 2 days ago.  When she got back, they immediately got back together.  The thing I can't understand is that 2 days before that happened, she asked me to be her life partner and said she was going to make love to me when she got back from vacation.  She said she was in love with me and didn't even love this other girl.  In the past she has been a compulsive liar, lieing about everything imaginable.  
The pain I'm feeling is so bad.  She even lied about breaking up with the girl.  I love her so much and I want to know how to get her back.  For good.  

Answer
I suggest you don’t have anything to do with her at all. Why would you want someone like that in your life? She only cause you pain. Her track record is  horrible and you are not going to be able to change her. She obviously has no love or respect for you. My only suggestion to you is to find a woman who will love you 100%! Once you find what true love really is, you'll wonder why you wasted so much time on this girl.  
Hope this helps,
Sam