Expert: Don - 7/17/2007

Question
You hear of men that are players/womanizers/cheaters, they spend their entire life being jerks to women. Then one day, they meet the girl of their dreams, marry her, and COMPLETELY change their previous ways.

How has the girl established herself as that special in order to keep these players from cheating on her and want to claim her as their own?

Answer
In my opinion it's not the girl, it's the guys choice. There is nothing the girl can do to make a guy change who he is, it's up to him. If he wants to be a player or womanizer then he's going be that. He can have the best girl in the world but until he is ready to settle down with just one woman he's going continue to do what he wants.

There is nothing the woman can do, when the guy is ready to stop womanizing he'll settle down, until then he's going be what he is.

I hope this helped and good luck.