Expert: Don - 5/15/2007

Question
i have been with my boyfriend for a year and on our aniversary he had sex with someone else. he is so sorrry now and crazily wants me back. he says he needs time to get himself staight and make a lifetime promise not to ever do that again. he believes we have a bright future together and i think so. we love each other. should i leave him or give him a chance????

Answer
You should only give him a second chance if you believe that he is really sorry for his mistake. If you believe that he will never do it again and will learn to respect you and your relationship and feel you can trust him again, then give him a second chance.

However if you think he is lying and will do it again, then don't take him back.

Only take him back if you can trust him. If you can't then dump him and move on to another man who knows how to treat you.

I hoped this helped and good luck