Expert: Don - 5/16/2007

Question
Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year now. and everything is just perfect. beyond so.
i suppose that is the reason why i cheated. because it was so perfect and boring.
but i am honestly confused.
i cheated on my boyfriend with my coworker awhile ago. i still love my boyfriend very very much, and i feel that things may get serious in the future. however, right now i am lusting after my coworker a lot.
after i slept with him, i felt no guilt. i still feel no guilt.
and a part of me thinks i never will.
what does this mean?
i don't know what to do, and right now i am very confused.

Answer
Honestly it means that you're a little selfish. You're putting your own personal desires and feelings over the feelings of everybody else. All you care about is getting your own physical desires met and not caring about how hurt your boyfriend will be if he ever finds out about what you are doing.

I would suggest you get some counseling and stop seeing your co-worker, especially if you really do love your boyfriend and don't want to lose him.

Get control over your feelings and stop doing the things you are doing

I hoped this helped and good luck.