Expert: Danyelle - 3/19/2001

Question
I'm in a 5 year relationship and I was happy until I saw my ex and we started to talk and then we ended up sleeping together and now we see each other everyday cause we now work at the same place and the more time I spend with her I'm  falling deeper and deeper in love with her what should I do?

Answer
Hello Jim. Ok, if you've been in this 5 year relationship there must be something about the woman to make you stay with her, but if you have to cheat because of your ex I think the best thing to do would be to break it off with Miss 5yr, I say that because if you really loved her you wouldn't cheat on her; so basically breaking up with her now before she finds out your cheating would be the best thing to do with her. Then again I do have an opinion about ex's~they are ex's for a reason so trying to rekindle an old flame never really works out as planned. But that's up to you. Does the woman love you back or is she just using you? Think about that before considering leaving your current girlfriend. What it all comes down to in the end is who do you really love and who really loves you~when that's figured out then you'll be able to decide the fate of both relationships. Good luck and I hope my advice was helpful. If you havce anquestions about my response I'm always here to clarify them. Thank you!