Expert: Don - 9/2/2007

Question
My boyfriend and I had been going out for two years. He recently found some pictures of my and my ex at a party. I assured him that nothing happened that day and I didn't tell him about me going out that night because I knew he will be upset. He was hurt but he said he loved me and wanted to be with me. The problem is that ever since that, he's been acting weird and I think he might be cheating. He used to sleep over my house a lot, now all of the sudden he says he feels more confortable at his apartment, he also spends more time at the gym thatn before. He is becaming more cold and says the he loves me less often. I suspect of a female coworker that he works with. I checked his cell phone bill and there where a couple of text messages back and forth, but besides that I haven't see anything supicius... I am too paranoic or is he cheating? should I confront him about the text messages? what should I do I'm desperate...

Answer
If the text messages bother you so much, then ask him about them. There is nothing wrong with doing so but be warned, if he thinks you're snooping on him by going through his cell phone bill, he might get upset. Nobody likes when another person goes through there things without their permission.

I think you are to paranoid, but if it really bothers you then simply ask him about it in a non confrontation way.

I hope this helped and good luck.