About Bruce D. Frank Expertise I can help you figure out if your spouse or lover is cheating. I can also help you deal with the situation; from catching the cheater to healing, or ending the relationship. I tend to be straight forward.
Experience I have been the victim of a cheater. From the point of suspecting to catching her, to healing; I began to study the subject extensively.
Question hi im 17 and my gf is 19 we live in diff states i live in texas she lives in new jersey and at first everything was goin great then she acted diff around me stop callin and stopped talkin for awhile always told me she didnt want to talk to anybody and was always goin somewhere when i would talk to her and then one night bfore she went on her vacation i called her house and her mom picked up and i asked her if she was there and she said yes shes in the car with her bf and im like wait im her bf and she said no shes in the car with chris with i thought was her ex and idk what she was doing she told me she didnt do anything and even sweared on her life and the next day i thought she went on a here vacation but i noticed something she was online on her myspace and i got a funny feeling so i was like i thought u were leaving and she said o the plane was delayed so were goin tomorrow and i got even more wierd so i made a fake myspace and i added her and i said hey u live in hightstown where she lives and she said yeah i said i do to shes like awesome and then i asked her do u have a bf and she said NO!!! and that she was painfully single and then i reavled myself and she said it was low of me to do that and well after that we stopped talkin for a week and well she made up the vacation to avoid me and i was crushed but was she cheating on me with her ex?
Answer Shane,
I hate to break the news to you but... You already know the answer to your question. Unfortunately, when you have feelings that something is going on, it usually is. You have to trust your feelings. That is the tool that you have to help you cut through the lies. I am sorry that she hurt you, but you must move on.