Expert: Peggy - 7/10/2000

Question
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me.  Everyone is telling that he is.  When we first startrd going out we saw each other alot but i haven`t seen him in about 4 weeks.  All we do is talk on the phone, but we don`t even do that much anymore.  So my question to you is do you think he is cheating on me  and what should I do if he is or even if he isn`t?  

Answer
Hi Casey,
It sounds like he is trying to break off the relationship, but he isn't man enough to tell you to your face.  You need to confront him, and tell him you want the truth so you can move on if that's what he wants.  If he says he wants to continue the relationship, then you need to tell him he needs to make an effort to keep the fire burning.  If he is just coming around for sex, tell him to get lost...Don't sit home and wait for him to call.  That is the worst mistake you can make. Go out with friends and have fun without him.. He will only treat you badly if you let him.
Don't let him...Life is too short, and I'm sure that there
are plenty of guys that would love to take you out.
Good Luck
Peggy