Expert: Don - 5/10/2007

Question
Hi,
I have known my current boyfriend for 4 years and we have recently started dating.  I asked him if we were exclusive and he said yes.  I asked him this becuase I know he cheated on a previous girlfriend.  Things have been going great and then I went to use his computer and a page came up with recent communication with another girl that really upset me.  It was about them meeting up this coming weekend, however him and I have plans.  Is he just flirting with this girl or should I confront him about it?

Answer
It's cool to confront him but at the same time you don't want him to know you were sneaking in his things. So all you have to do is ask him about your plans that the two of you have made for this weekend and if they are still on. If all of a sudden he changes you guys plans or can't explain what he is doing for apart of the weekend, then you'll know he might be going out to see this other girl.

So confront him, but confront him in away so that he doesn't think you are just snooping around and being jealous.

I hoped this helped and good luck