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My wifes supervisor has is having an affair in their office with the employee supervised by her supervisors husband.  While on a business trip   the two cheaters suggested to my wife that she cheat on me.

Should I say something to the husband being cheated on or report it to the companies HR.

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If you can report it anonymously, than yes.  It certainly is unprofessional. I would not get involved with it unless you can report and no one knows it is you. If nothing is done about it, than so be it. I suggest you stay out of it and make sure your wife does as well.
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Is he/she cheating? The signs of a cheater are obvious if you know what to look for. If you think your mate is cheating ask me. I can also help you heal after being cheated on. If you are thinking about cheating but need help so you will NOT, I can try and help you. Please do NOT ask me how to cheat and get away with it. Cheating is hurtful and I do not condone it.

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I have spent years studying relationships. I also have done some research on why people cheat and what to look for if you think they are.

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A degree in Psychology and certified in handling crisis and counseling

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