Expert: RITA - 8/20/2004

Question
My boyfriend had cheated on me once. His excuse was he was drunk, and thought we broken up. I told him that it really hurts and he said he was sorry and won't do it again. I'm starting to see him get more friends on his messanger and they are girls, not only that but they live near us. Plus it doesn't help that he leaves his email on when I wanted to check mine and I happen to find a topic of 'when will we meet' I'm soo hurt. How I can deal with this? I feel like I was bad to accidently read that so I can't confront him. I want to just tie myself up and disappear from everyone. I really need some advice. Please help me.

Answer
Dear Jen
When things are going on around us without our knowledge, the evidence will turn up without us even looking for it...that is how I see it. Your boyfriend is not much of a boyfriend..and using the excuse "I was drunk" is no excuse. Get rid of him
Take care