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when my boyfriend and i were dating he cheated on me with a girl at a lock-in. He didn't ever tell me. Right before 1 month he broke up with me. A few days later i find out that he was cheating on me. He told me everything, the girls name and so on. He told me he didn't want to tell me because he didn't want to hurt me. He told this girl it was worth it...sorta.

What does he mean by this?  

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She was worth you him cheating.
Look ,he is your ex and obviously a lying cheat, so don’t waste anytime on what he thinks or says or has done in the past. You should be thanking your lucky stars he is an ex because now you can find a man who does love and respect you!
~Sam

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Is he/she cheating? The signs of a cheater are obvious if you know what to look for. If you think your mate is cheating ask me. I can also help you heal after being cheated on. If you are thinking about cheating but need help so you will NOT, I can try and help you. Please do NOT ask me how to cheat and get away with it. Cheating is hurtful and I do not condone it.

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I have spent years studying relationships. I also have done some research on why people cheat and what to look for if you think they are.

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A degree in Psychology and certified in handling crisis and counseling

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