Expert: Don - 12/15/2007

Question
So, a little backround. My ex and I were together for around 3 months on and off. When he broke up with me in August I was very upset and sad, you know. So I turned to my friends and looked to them for comfort. My ex, "Jake", and I were really close, and I cared about him a lot. We hung out again about 2 months later and messed around a little. When I told my friend, "Brooke" about this, she told me she believed me, and when "Jake" tried to tell her nothing happened, and I moved on him, she told him straight to his face she did not believe him. I talked to Brooke a little bit about his and mine relatioship and she understood that I really cared for him, but then they hung out and got together in November, which obviously upset me, seeing as I don't believe Jake is a good person at all, and lies all the time, but I do/did still have feelings for him. Just the other day he IM'd me and came and picked me up and took me to his house, where he cheated on her, with me. We ended up having sex, [it was both of ours first times] but he told me he had broken up with her earlier that day, turns out he didn't. I didn't feel too bad seeing as Brooke and I had not seen eye-to-eye since she had gotten with him, and our friendship was pretty much lost, but I don't know what to do. I don't know if he still has feelings for me, and also, if I should tell her. I don't want to hurt her at all, and I know telling her would, but if I don't tell her and she finds out later it would be even worse..

Answer
He was just using you for sex, if he really wanted to be with you, he would dump this Brooke girl and be with you. Don't let this guy continue to use you for your body while he is still dating Brooke, until he dumps Brooke you should stay away from him.