Expert: Don - 4/22/2007

Question
so I wrote and asked about her going to vegas with hir girlfriends for the weekend and never calling till over 24 hours after she got there... and then I heard a voicemail from a guy saying we are looking for you and am coming to your place call me... now she went with all girls supposedly. I am very hurt over this. I sensed something was up though... but then she called on the saturday night ( she got there friday night) and told me she loved me and missed me. but seemed to be very quiet on the phone. and acted kinda weird. I know she cheated. my instinct has never been wrong ya know? I really love her with all my heart and this crushed me. what am I supposed to do? she did leave someone to be with me ( and that was a 4 year relationship ) so is this her blowing steam and everything will be ok after this? I haven't always been the best guy but I never cheated on her ever. I have changed a lot for her too. I quit drinking and even keep my room spotless. so do I give this relationship a chance or take what I know and move on? I know she will never admit to cheating. so actually I have been giving her so much attention and love... thinking that ultimately she will feel horrible and admit to it on her own at least... if I wanted to see how this game plays out what do you suggest I do? is showing her I am totally in love with her and only her the way to make guilt prevail? I am very confused and hurt... help please

Answer
Hey once a cheater always a cheater. You said she left somebody to get with you, so why wouldn't you like she wouldn't dump you to get with somebody else.

I think you should dump her before she dumps you, because you are about to get dumped my friend. So you should confront her about the situation and see what kinds of lies she is going to tell, and as soon as she finishes talking dump her.

I hope this helped and good luck