Expert: Don - 7/15/2007

Question
I am dating this guy who seemed really kind. But then on one of our dates, he started telling me stories about how this girl back in college used to stalk him, that she used to sleep outside his bedroom window and he had to call the cops on her. Then he proceeded to tell me about all the women who are stalking him currently. (what the hell?) All his friends are very sexy women. And he recently told me that I'm not his girlfriend, we're just dating, and that he doesn't want a girlfriend because he doesn't want a serious relationship and he never wants to get married.

Oh boy. Ok from what I'm telling you, what do you think. And what's up with all the girl stalker stories. do you think maybe he hit on them and that's why they're following him around? or he just doesn't know when to shut his mouth.

Answer
I would run not walk away from this guy, he sounds insane.

Just think about it what are the chances of one guy having this many stalkers? It sounds like he has other girls on the side and he wants to use them stalking as a excuse as to why girls might come around when you are with him.

Plus why waste your time with him if he never wants to have a girlfriend or get married, then what's the point of spending time together if the relationship isn't going to grow.

This guy sounds nuts, I would stop dealing with him if I were you.

I hope this helped and good luck.