Expert: Sam E - 3/21/2007

Question
after reading all of these forums. i wanna ask if a guy says he wants to be with u and doesn't want to break up then why does he cheat on u? if i wanted to cheat on someone obviously i wouldn't want to be with them for one reason or another wether it be they're not attractive or they're not their for me enough. why is it that guys will get caught cheating then still plead to be with u when it's so clear that he cheated on u cus he was unhappy with something.

Answer
If they are cheating on you than its pretty clear they don’t love you.  He wants to have someone to keep him from being lonely and he wants to play the field. When caught he will do or say whatever he needs to keep you.  When we find someone we really love, we don’t cheat. Also, not all guys cheat and if they do, move on!
Sam