Expert: Bruce D. Frank - 11/20/2007

Question
my husband cheated on me and i got to the bottom of it(he moved out). However, am opened minded about this situation( i feel relieved)but sometime i feel like shit because the thoughts of his action really bothers me. my question is how in the world do i make the days go by fast so that i can continue with my life?

Answer
It takes time.  You have to know that his actions had little to do with you.  He made choices based upon his own emotional short comings.  Once you realize that you are capable of being loved by yourself and others, you just need to take the time to let some am's and pm's pass by to heal.  Good Luck.