Expert: Sam E - 4/10/2007

Question
hey sam ive spoken to you before as well about my situation?im in the middle of a very difficult situation now and i really need your help!!my bf had cheated and then dumped me for this new girl after we were together for 3 n halfs yrs(you know abt this)..but then he called me up and apologized alot and telling me he only loves me and the other girl was just for fun and that he wants to be with me..then suddenly today he smses me saying why u messing up my stuff and he goes like why did u have to tell the other girl about us it was between us so why you hads to tell her everything and he was angry on tht..and tells me anywaz im going out with her ya and things r pretty good between us..how could he tell me tht i messed up by telling the other girl the truth and again hurt me like tht after talking all those things to me yesterday,he lied to me again that i love only you and im not with tht other girl and then today he gets angry because i had told her the truth and the other girl and me had a bit of a tiff which was written in the mails and hes gettin angry..hes making me sound like the bad one now that i messed things for him and spoke to tht girl and now i dont know wht hes thinking,but im very hurt that after knowing me so long and he doing so much bad to me he now even goes to the extent of saying why i spoke to the other girl,am i really bad to that? i love him so much but in return i got this from him..im just hurting since  along time now and now he is putting me like the bad one!!please help me sam..

Answer
He obviously is not into since he broke up with you and  he is using you. I suggest you stay away rom him or he will keep hurting you. He was saying lies to you so he could have sex with you but when you told, that made him upset because he really wants to be with her, not you. If he wanted you he would be with you. Remember that. He is bad news so stay away. Don’t call him, don’t answer his calls, no more email, nothing! Move on 100% and he wont hurt you again!
Who cares what he is making this out to be. You know you are a good person and he is doing the wrong so move on. I promise you that once you move on from him and get on with your life you feel so much better and you will find a man worth your love and time. A man that will never hurt you. So let this creep go forever. Don’t let him play you again! Once time is one time enough!
Sam