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SubjectDate AskedExpert
Bad thoughts?2/7/2004Amanda L.
  Q: I'm 25 and have been dating the same girl for almost 7 years. When we met in college I was a virgin ...
  A: Chris, This exact same thing happened to my brother actually. I'll tell you the same thing I told ...
cheating boyfriend1/30/2004Amanda L.
  Q: My boyfriend of a year now, continually would go see his ex girlfriend because she tried to kill ...
  A: Callie, The question is how long ago did he break up with her before you guys started to go out and ...
Cheating1/27/2004Amanda L.
  Q: My boyfriend and i have been together over a year now. at one point in our relationship after about ...
  A: Hallie, I've had a lot of questions like this. You need to first off tell him that you don't have a ...
Cheater?!?1/4/2004Amanda L.
  Q: Amanda, I just got back from a long trip and knew something was wrong,My girlfriend had it written ...
  A: Jason, Rape is incredibly serious. It may hurt her to turn her friend in, but if he did it to her, ...
Casual sex10/18/2003Amanda L.
  Q: im not much into relationships so i want to know how to pick up women for one night ...
  A: Dimitre, You have to have confidence. Guys with confidence(not egotism) are really attractive. You ...
Rocky Relationship...3/15/2003Kat
  Q: My fiancee and I are having an etremely hard time right now. I had a VERY shady past... I slept ...
  A: For the sake of your baby, you guys must try and work this out. I can see why he would be insecure, ...
cheating boyfriend2/21/2003Kat
  Q: We were dating for about a month when he cheated on me with 3 girls. They were all from work and he ...
  A: I'm sorry to say this guy doesn't sound like good news. To cheat with 3 girls is just ridiculous. ...
commitment and honesty11/26/2002Dear Shay
  Q: I've been dating Curt for almost six months. He is 49, I'm 35. About two weeks ago I asked for a ...
  A: Well hun, he treats you well..but you want different things right now. You want commitment, he ...
IS HE STILL CHEATING11/19/2002Dear Shay
  Q: I don't think he is, let me start from the begining. Been togetger for 3 years lived together for ...
  A: Well hun, you are just hurt. You cant imagine your boyfriend with someone else, and he was. She took ...
Feeling bad10/29/2002Dear Shay
  Q: A little over two years ago, I went through a bad breakup. I had dated this man for almost 8 years. ...
  A: Hun, I am sorry you are going through this right now. But, you need to ask yourself a few questions. ...
Moving On9/25/2002Dear Shay
  Q: I am 18 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. Our relationship wasn't that great ...
  A: The source of your problem is HIM. Hun, dont feel bad..feel angry, feel hurt and feel ...
Life after cheating....9/10/2002Dear Shay
  Q: I cheated in my marriage and got caught. It eventually ended my marriage. Now I'm constantly ...
  A: Its no doubt that it would send warning signs to a new person in your life. My suggestion is that ...
Sis-in-Law Needs Help9/7/2002Peggy
  Q: My wife's brother is an ass. He constantly verbally abuses his wife and children, and thinks that ...
  A: I'm sure your sister-in-law already knows she is acting stupid, but I'm sure she is still convinced ...
should i break up with her9/6/2002Dear Shay
  Q: ive been with my girlfriend for 8 months we are both 17 and i have fount out she has cheated on me ...
  A: She cheated on you 4 times in 8 months?! Hun, get rid of her. While you may have a signifigant ...
I want to cheat but I don't want to.9/4/2002Dear Shay
  Q: I'm 23 and have been dating the same girl for almost 5 years. When we met in college I was a virgin ...
  A: Its natural for you to feel this way. In situations like these, I usually advise that you not go out ...
One a cheater always a cheater?8/27/2002Dear Shay
  Q: Well, Me and my ex wife started out 5 years ago, I was 19 and she was 26. She was in process of a ...
  A: I think you both should stay as far away from eachother as possible. You both bring out the worst in ...
in return4/7/2002stan stanley
  Q: When a cheater and a lover start a relationship does it also end in cheating?
  A: Your question does not have an answer. its like saying you suffer from occasional, constant, ...
cheating/ lieing3/25/2002Peggy
  Q: Peggy , i was married for 10 years caught my husband fooling around on me. left him with no ...
  A: It is so much harder to fall out of love than into it. It is easy to fall in love (or rebound) if ...
Is she cheating or is she true?3/20/2002Peggy
  Q: I have been dating a girl for a short time. About 4 months now. She has a history of not being too ...
  A: One thing that will make a girl lose interest in a guy is if she feels like he is smothering her. ...
I cheated on my girlfriend1/22/2002Peggy
  Q: I would be going out with my girlfriend for one year officially today on jan 21st(we've been seeing ...
  A: I didn't understand, did you tell her you slept with the other girl? If not, I advise you not too. ...
SorryWhat should I do to spend more time with this woman??11/22/2001Courtney
  Q: Ok. Here's my story. I am a 24 year old guy who like this 33 year old woman. She works in the ...
  A: Honestly, I have no idea why she's so comfortable revealing all to you, but never wants to go out. ...
I need help pursuing this girl....um...older woman :)11/22/2001Danyelle
  Q: Danyelle. I know that you are a little younger than me, but I figure I mine as well see your opinion ...
  A: Well it's easier for a lot of people to open up and actually talk when they're on the phone. It's ...
a cheating mate11/16/2001Craig
  Q: I confronted him and he turned it around saying,"You provoked this" the worst is when I confronted ...
  A: I understand you are hurt and angry over these events..you have a right to be angry...this is ...
infidelity10/21/2001Peggy
  Q: I have recently found out that while I dated my wife exclusively she had many one night stands when ...
  A: I know it is hard to deal with this even though it happened 10 years ago. What does your wife say ...
Cheating girlfriend?10/11/2001Craig
  Q: She has cheated before and I forgave here but I am constantly finding things that just dont add up. ...
  A: okay here goes... 1. hire a PI 2. tape her conversations 3. follow her yourself if you feel ...
How?9/21/2001Danyelle
  Q: How would I know she'c cheating? or Is flirting cheating? How d u cheat for the good? thnks
  A: Different people react different ways when they're cheating. Some people start to get very ...
questioning myself8/13/2001Greg
  Q: Greg- Hi, I am 18 in 2 weeks I will be going away to college 250 miles from where I live. In high ...
  A: What you feel is, as you said Lust. Lust isnt love, and shouldnt be confused with it. Speaking from ...
Dating at work6/22/2001Danyelle
  Q: I already asked this To Crystal Reed, she chose not respond. So I'm asking you, hope you don't ...
  A: Sorry it has taken me so long to respond. Well I am currently in a relationship with a ...
cheating3/19/2001Danyelle
  Q: I'm in a 5 year relationship and I was happy until I saw my ex and we started to talk and then we ...
  A: Ok, if you've been in this 5 year relationship there must be something about the woman to make you ...
cheating3/13/2001Greg
  Q: How can I tell if my boyfriend of four years is cheating on me?
  A: Jen, Look for sexual marks that you know you didnt give to him, second, is he un interested in sex? ...
trust1/12/2001Peggy
  Q: How do you ever trust again after all the lies? (He is verbally abusive and emotinally abusive, not ...
  A: TJ If you have a partner that is verbally and emotionally abusive to you, you are better off not ...
Advice12/29/2000Courtney
  Q: I need some help, advice, insight or maybe just a different point of view. How do I start. Well I ...
  A: That is a touchy situation, but if I were in your position, I think that I would have a small word ...
what shall I do?11/7/2000Danyelle
  Q: I write you in order to ask you a small advice. I´m 26 years old and I have been dating with a 21 ...
  A: Well I think that if you really regret kissing this other girl, asking God for forgiveness should be ...
what shall I do?11/7/2000Peggy
  Q: I write you in order to ask you a small advice. I´m 26 years old and I have been dating with a 21 ...
  A: It will not be of any benefit to your girlfriend to tell her about the kiss. It will only hurt her. ...
How can I cheat on my wife?11/2/2000Danyelle
  Q: I am wanting to cheat on my wife and I`m having a hard time figuring out how to do it. I am 44 ...
  A: I think you may be jumping ahead of yourself. I know that is an odd way to start but I had to get ...
cheating7/10/2000Peggy
  Q: I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. Everyone is telling that he is. When we first startrd ...
  A: It sounds like he is trying to break off the relationship, but he isn't man enough to tell you to ...
take him again?6/28/2000Peggy
  Q: After being together for 20+ years I put my ex out 5yrs ago for cheating. He was my best friend and ...
  A: You need to give up on this man.. He isn't going to change, so unless you want to live the rest of ...
relationship5/18/2000Courtney
  Q: I`ve just broke up with my gf or she broke up with me. Things were goin really well in my opinion, ...
  A: Well, I think that if you care for this girl and she's worth it, ask her if she wants to even try to ...
How do I decide?3/26/2000Don Whiting
  Q: I met a guy not too long ago named James that honestly seems to be what I am looking for. The only ...
  A: Please forgive my delay in answering your letter, I have been battling a touch of the flu, recently. ...
CHEATING ON MY HUSBAND3/24/2000Peggy
  Q: MY OUESTION IS AM I WRONG FOR CHEATING ON MY HUSBAND. I`M IN A ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP MY HUSBAND IS ...
  A: Cheating is always wrong, however I can understand why you are doing it. I was in the same situation ...

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