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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| a different kind of cheating | 9/19/2007 | Don |
| Q: My gf and I got drunk the other night... we both open up and say more than we do when sober. Enter: ... A: I think the drunk story is the truth, no person makes up a story like that just because they are ... | ||
| how to test gf: will she cheat? | 9/19/2007 | Don |
| Q: I'd like to get the whole "will she cheat?" concern off my chest with my gf and am willing to test ... A: Women are harder to trick, the attractive guy picking up her up in a bar, more than likely will not ... | ||
| brotherly and sisterly "love" | 9/19/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: My gf and I got drunk the other night... we both open up and say more than we do when sober. Enter: ... A: This is a horrible situation. I do not believe the sober self in this case. Alcohol only releases ... | ||
| he says he has forgiving but he just won't let go | 9/19/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: my name is jennifer and i cheated on my boyfriend about 2months ago. he says he has forgiven me and ... A: You are right. It is impossible for him to forgive and forget. The forgiveness part may come easy ... | ||
| Will he ever forgive me? | 9/19/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I was with my boyfriend for 3 years. The last year of our relationship was very, very hard, we fell ... A: The on again off again thing is not good. He seems to be stringing you along like a little puppy ... | ||
| I don't trust her | 9/18/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I have been going out with a girl of my dreams for about 3 years, shes no super model, but she's my ... A: You are in a very difficult situation. You must have trust in a relationship for it to work, but, ... | ||
| what do i do... | 9/18/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: Ok, I'm really very confused and my head is spinning right now. I've talked to alot of people about ... A: You must use the word "friend" and "love" more sparingly. A bf who loves his gf would never put ... | ||
| Incest | 9/17/2007 | Don |
| Q: Look. I need some help here,I have had a gf for long, been suspecting that she is cheating on me ... A: I'm not sure what question you are asking, it seems to be you have all the proof you need. You ... | ||
| was he cheating | 9/17/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: Out of da blue one nite i got a call from my bf's sister. she told me he was sleeping with 2 ... A: If he denies it and you have no reason not to trust him... let it go. If he has cheated on you ... | ||
| how to rebuild trut after cheating | 9/15/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I have been married almost 2 years. my husband is clean and sober for 2 years. He is the best thing ... A: The only way you can really move on as a couple is with trust. The pain, loneliness, and distrust ... | ||
| Cheated on... | 9/14/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I just recently found out that my wife of 3 months just cheated on me. She's in the navy, and ... A: I am very sorry to hear about what happened to you. Infidelity is one of the most hurtful things ... | ||
| What should I do? | 9/14/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I am currently engaged to a very nice girl whom I have been going out with for two and a half years ... A: Cheating is wrong. If you desire to cheat you can, of course, do it but you must be willing to face ... | ||
| Know she's cheating, what's the best way to confont and get the truth? | 9/13/2007 | Don |
| Q: We've been dating for 6mo. I saw a call from a guy I didn't recognize, no big deal. I went in her ... A: She might never tell the truth, every other time you've confronted her even when you had evidence, ... | ||
| I know that she cheated and she continues to make up excuses | 9/13/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: We've been dating for 6mo. I saw a call from a guy I didn't recognize, no big deal. I went in her ... A: No it will not work. It has not worked to this point, and there are no factors that have changed. ... | ||
| the never ending affair | 9/13/2007 | Don |
| Q: I have been with my husband for almost 13 years married for 2 years.... We lived with my parents, ... A: You just have to put your foot down, let him know that you need some time to figure out what you ... | ||
| I do not know why I cheated? | 9/13/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I was very devoted and married to a cocaine addict for 13 years. he got some clean time and I ... A: There are a multitude of reasons why people cheat. Unfortunately, people tend to give themselves ... | ||
| the never ending affair | 9/12/2007 | Don |
| Q: I have been with my husband for almost 13 years married for 2 years.... We lived with my parents, ... A: You husband appears to be a selfish person who only thinks about his own interest and he's not going ... | ||
| Cheating and more cheating! | 9/12/2007 | Don |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2yrs. We have a 10 month old daughter and im ... A: If you don't leave him then you might as well get use to a life of him lying and cheating on you. ... | ||
| Ex g/f manipulated both me and the guy she is now seeing | 9/11/2007 | Don |
| Q: Before I give some background, here is a brief summary... My ex girlfriend is now seriously seeing ... A: I wouldn't tell the new boyfriend about you sleeping with your ex that last time, if you really want ... | ||
| Caught her cheating | 9/11/2007 | Don |
| Q: My GF cheated on me with her ex boyfriend. She did this once and I have proves that it didnt happen ... A: There isn't like a magic way or any words that I can give you to make you just feel better, it's ... | ||
| my g/f cheated on me w/ my best friend | 9/9/2007 | Don |
| Q: So the subject says it all. The best friend was a guy i let live w/ me for 2 years, paid for ... A: First off there is no excuse for her actions, and it's nobody's fault but her own that she decided ... | ||
| Please help me, I think she's cheating on me PLEASE HELP! | 9/8/2007 | Don |
| Q: Please read carefully and help me, I am so hurt and i dont know what to do, first I want to tell you ... A: You can trick her into telling you she cheated if you feel that strongly about her cheating. Just ... | ||
| How do i deal with my Boyfriend who is afraid of comitment? | 9/8/2007 | Don |
| Q: I just don't know what to do. Hes actually told me that he cheated on me because i pissed him off... ... A: Break up with him, he doesn't respect you or your relationship if he is cheating on you all the time ... | ||
| need suggestion(s) | 9/4/2007 | Don |
| Q: simple question, difficult solution...first things first: my girlfriend and i want to see one ... A: I don't know, I'm not really a spy, I guess, she could wait until it's dark outside and go out the ... | ||
| Is he cheating? | 9/2/2007 | Don |
| Q: My boyfriend and I had been going out for two years. He recently found some pictures of my and my ex ... A: If the text messages bother you so much, then ask him about them. There is nothing wrong with doing ... | ||
| will he keep his promise? | 8/27/2007 | Don |
| Q: Dramatis personae: bf & self, both 40s. Long distance relationship, together every second w/e & ... A: Hey I'm sorry that it had to come to this and I know it's sad but at least now, this opens you up to ... | ||
| hi | 8/26/2007 | Don |
| Q: My boyfriend recently went on a month long trip to Europe with one of his guy friends, during the ... A: Stop harassing the guy, he told you nothing happened, so why do you constantly bring it up. If you ... | ||
| Am i a serial cheater? | 8/23/2007 | Don |
| Q: SO, Ive been married for close to a year..but i dont think im in love with my husband anymore. I ... A: I'm pretty sure you aren't a serial cheater, seeing as how you haven't technically cheated on ... | ||
| She cheated. | 8/23/2007 | Don |
| Q: I'm a 16 year old boy, and my ex-Girlfriend is 15 years old. We have been going out for 7 and a half ... A: If you feel she is a good friend and want to remain friends with her there is nothing wrong with ... | ||
| What to do now?? | 8/23/2007 | Don |
| Q: I met a man 3 years ago. We dated and then I found out he was married. I broke up with him. He kept ... A: Let me get this straight, he cheated on his wife with you, and at the same time he was cheating on ... | ||
| Quandry | 8/22/2007 | Don |
| Q: I am in a quandry. I met a person 3 months ago- and believed him to be "the one". Our lives have ... A: You asked me to be direct so I'm going be direct as possible. You'd be a fool to stay with this man. ... | ||
| will he keep his promise? | 8/22/2007 | Don |
| Q: Dramatis personae: bf & self, both 40s. Long distance relationship, together every second w/e & ... A: I think his chances of sticking to the commitment of not being in contact with SF are slim to none. ... | ||
| Old Girlfriend | 8/21/2007 | Don |
| Q: I've been married for 8 years. I have never really been "happy". Last year My first loves dad died ... A: There isn't really much you can do, you have one of two choices to make, since it seems clear that ... | ||
| My Husband Cheated! | 8/21/2007 | Don |
| Q: I'm 27 He's 30 been together 8 yrs married 6years. Seven weeks ago I got a text off my husband ... A: I say leave him, even if you are only doing it as a scare tactic because he's taking advantage of ... | ||
| will he keep his promise? | 8/20/2007 | Don |
| Q: Dramatis personae: bf & self, both 40s. Long distance relationship, together every second w/e & ... A: Of course he will continue the playing the game with SF, why wouldn't he. You've told him on ... | ||
| Another chance after cheating? | 8/20/2007 | Don |
| Q: I have been in a relationship with this guy on and off for 3 years. I became pregnant last fall and ... A: 1. He pretends to be a one woman man, so that he can keep you from leaving him. If he bragged about ... | ||
| I cheated on my partner on Saturday. What do I do? | 8/20/2007 | Don |
| Q: Last Saturday I went out with a few of my guy mates (I generally only have guy mates), on a night ... A: I wouldn't tell your boyfriend if I were you, especially if you don't plan on doing what you did ... | ||
| really confused... | 8/20/2007 | Don |
| Q: um...well I've been with my boyfriend since I was about 14, so that's just over 4 years. As you'd ... A: If you really feel that you aren't in love with him anymore, then I say there is no point in staying ... | ||
| he cheated | 8/19/2007 | Sam E |
| Q: he mine name is sam, im 18 and i had been with my boyfrend (who i am going to call dan) for a year. ... A: YOU DESERVE MORE THAN HE CAN GIVE YOU NOW! LET HIM GO!! He obviously cares nothing for you or this ... | ||
| Another chance after cheating? | 8/19/2007 | Don |
| Q: I have been in a relationship with this guy on and off for 3 years. I became pregnant last fall and ... A: To me it sounds like your boyfriend is a compulsive liar and cheater. It's obvious that he's ... | ||
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Don
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
I will answer any and all questions when it comes to catching a cheater or ways to get away with cheating.
Experience
I have successfully cheated in 10 out of 10 relationships without ever being caught, so I know all the signs of a person who is cheating and I also know how not to be caught. So if you need help in getting away with cheating or if you suspect your bf/gf or spouse of cheating and want help spotting the signs of a cheater I'm your man.
Education/Credentials
BS in Clinical Psychology
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