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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Be Frank, Frank! | 12/4/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I am currently thinking about leaving my boyfriend. I really love him but I want to eliminate any ... A: I do not believe in the saying, "once a cheater, always a cheater"... at least not all the time. ... | ||
| Agony | 12/4/2007 | Don |
| Q: Don, I am in a rut and I need an objective, honest opinion. I have been with my b/f for almost two ... A: He definitely cheated on you with somebody, whether it was his co-worker or not I'm not certain but ... | ||
| Have not cheated but... | 11/30/2007 | Don |
| Q: I've been with my current g/f for a little over 2 years. I care very much for her but lately she has ... A: I’m going help you out here buddy with a few tips that should help, I can’t give you all of them ... | ||
| Proving to the girl he is seeing that we are sleeping together. | 11/30/2007 | Don |
| Q: I'm going to admit right off the bat,that I'm bitter over my current situation and it caused me to ... A: Other than telling her you have no other way of proving it, I mean sure you could show her the texts ... | ||
| My girlfriend cheated on me | 11/28/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: Ok here goes: I am 22 my girlfriend is 23. We started dating in mid-march of this year so we've ... A: The best help for you is honesty. She needs to always be honest with you. She also has to make you ... | ||
| Confused about cheating | 11/27/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I am in a relationship of more than 3 years approaching 4 years. We were a match made from ... A: It will take time for you to totally heal. It helps to move on when you are with someone else. If ... | ||
| Cheating | 11/26/2007 | Don |
| Q: I've been with my husband for ten years, but I have always had an attration to someone I use to work ... A: Join or at least pretend to join clubs is a great idea, for example tell your husband you have ... | ||
| Cheating? On-line relationshio | 11/25/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I'm not sure if this questions is best suited for this section, and it is also very complicated, ... A: I do not know if this is the appropriate forum for this question. However I will try to address ... | ||
| I am not healing and I miss her | 11/25/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I was with a girl for over 2 years. I am almost out of college so she was my college girlfriend. ... A: Unfortunately, the pain that you are suffering is all too common. You may be in love with her, but ... | ||
| What to Do! | 11/24/2007 | Don |
| Q: okay, my fiance' and I have been together for 8 yrs now, when we were first together he cheated on ... A: No you aren't wrong because you haven't cheated yet, but you need to break up with your fiance ... | ||
| how to catch a cheating wife | 11/24/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: how do i catch my wife in the act. we arent together but says she is still my woman and kiss me ... A: It is a little difficult to catch someone that you are not with; however it can be done. You have ... | ||
| What can women do to keep from getting involved with a cheater? | 11/24/2007 | Don |
| Q: I realize that cheaters look for specific types of women to date. Mostly the needy,financially ... A: Just don't be that woman. Don't go into relationships excepting a man to take care of you ... | ||
| awlful relationship | 11/24/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: ok...I live with my sons father. We have a 1 year old son...my 7 year daughter and his 10 year old ... A: Everyone wants love. That is why he cheats. His mind and emotions tell him that he is being loved ... | ||
| Cheater? Or just newly divorced? | 11/21/2007 | Don |
| Q: This is a subtle one. My boyfriend and I are early 40s. He was married before we met. He and his ... A: It's not bad but it is silly and childish, if you're going break up with him anyway, what's the ... | ||
| cheating | 11/21/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I been with my gf for 2 and a half years now but about a month and a half ago she started acting ... A: She will only change when her emotional void filled. Otherwise, you are waisting your time; and ... | ||
| Cheater? Or just newly divorced? | 11/21/2007 | Don |
| Q: This is a subtle one. My boyfriend and I are early 40s. He was married before we met. He and his ... A: I wouldn't think that he is a cheater, I think it's exactly what he said it is. He didn't get a ... | ||
| help | 11/20/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: my husband cheated on me and i got to the bottom of it(he moved out). However, am opened minded ... A: It takes time. You have to know that his actions had little to do with you. He made choices based ... | ||
| threesum | 11/20/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: i invited my galore to cum along with me and my boyfriend went out to the clubs....i was too drunk ... A: Situations like this are very messy. The fact that you were too drunk to remember means that you ... | ||
| married man stalker | 11/20/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: i had an affair with a married man. I ended it. He waits a few weeks and enquires how i am through ... A: Very simple, if he loves you he would end his marriage an be with you. He is playing a game of cat ... | ||
| cheating | 11/15/2007 | Don |
| Q: I am a lesbian and I have been with my girlfriend for 7 months. I recently found out that she had ... A: Either stop thinking about it or you'll end up losing your girlfriend. If you keep thinking about ... | ||
| how can i get some | 11/14/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: Im married because I never get hit on by girls, how do I get more girls interested? Maybe have an ... A: Read books on how to meet and attract women. You simply need to talk to more women and things will ... | ||
| Should i accept her? | 11/13/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: i dont know if this site is for women only, but i just have to ask my question and it goes thus; my ... A: This site is not just for woman. If you girlfriend has disappeared it is probably for a reason. ... | ||
| he cheated | 11/12/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: my boyfriend recently cheated on me and i caught him in bed with another girl. its been nearly 3 ... A: I am sorry about what happened to you. The pain involved is almost intolerable. Unfortunately, it ... | ||
| Is She Serious? | 11/12/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I have been married since 1994. I have been faithful but she hasn't. I found out that she met ... A: She will continue to cheat until you let her know that you will no longer tolerate her behavior. ... | ||
| My new husband, cheating? | 11/12/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I met him in 2004, he had someone pregnant, she said she would terminate, she didnt. Now he has a ... A: I think you need to get over the issue with the child. The little girl has no say in the matter. ... | ||
| My Flirting Girlfriend | 11/11/2007 | Don |
| Q: I want to know if my girlfriend of a year now is cheating on me. In actuality I have known her for ... A: I think she probably already has cheated on you and if she hasn't she's making plans to cheat on you ... | ||
| how to get over it | 11/9/2007 | Don |
| Q: Ive been with the same girl now for 5 year and we are planning on getting married but the other ... A: Come on seriously get over it, if you really love her and want to marry her you'll get over the fact ... | ||
| is he cheating | 11/8/2007 | Don |
| Q: i am involved in a long distance relationship with this guy for teh last three months. h e has been ... A: If you feel that you can't trust him, then there is no point of continuing a relationship with him. ... | ||
| How do I deal with the fact my bf slept with another woman? | 11/8/2007 | Don |
| Q: My bf and I have been together 2 years (long distance mostly). He was perfect, so trustworthy, so ... A: You just get over it, he wasn't even with you when it happened. You have no right to be mad or upset ... | ||
| can he really change? | 11/7/2007 | Don |
| Q: i have been in a relationship of almost 2 years.. last winter, we decided to get married but ... A: To answer your first question as to why he still wants to be with you, it's because people are ... | ||
| can he really change? | 11/7/2007 | Don |
| Q: i have been in a relationship of almost 2 years.. last winter, we decided to get married but ... A: Chances are he's not going to change. This wasn't a one time thing and he got caught and promised to ... | ||
| When is it too much? My girlfriend the cheater. | 11/1/2007 | Sam E |
| Q: I have this problem. As if the humiliation isn't enough. My gf recently cheated on me with another ... A: It’s time to move on. Anytime someone who is suppose to love you starts to bring you this much pain, ... | ||
| I didn't cheat! | 11/1/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: My boyfriend and I of three years have spent the past year to year and a half apart in long ... A: Infidelity is defined differently by different people. Basically, it is a betrayal of an intimate ... | ||
| How..... | 10/31/2007 | Don |
| Q: I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months now. I know shes cheated on me. But she continues to say ... A: First off why do you want to stay with a woman that is cheating on you anyway, just dump her and ... | ||
| should i? | 10/31/2007 | Don |
| Q: Not sure if you would remember but i asked you a question a while agi about the 35 yold woman at ... A: Well I normally tell guys not to have to many relationships with woman they work with because it has ... | ||
| relationships with men who cheat | 10/30/2007 | Don |
| Q: What are some things women can do to make a man happy? (Assuming this is a man that genuinely loves ... A: First step to finding a lasting relationship is finding a guy that you have different levels of ... | ||
| cheating | 10/30/2007 | Don |
| Q: I left him for cheating on me. He has tried over and over again to get me back for the past 9 ... A: In my opinion you are wrong. You chose not to continue in a relationship with him, so therefore he ... | ||
| Does she. . | 10/30/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I've with my girlfriend for six months now and known her 2 years. She is my first love. The way I ... A: The problem is that you have fallen in love with her but she does not love you. She may love you as ... | ||
| Staying together after cheating? | 10/25/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: My boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me about 7 months ago. It's a complicated story, but he was ... A: Yes, people can live in a normal relationship after a situation like this. It does take a lot of ... | ||
| got cheated on... | 10/25/2007 | Bruce D. Frank |
| Q: I have been living with my bf for nearly 10 years. 4 years ago, he was sent to Japan for 2 year ... A: I recognize the pain, the pounding heart, the shaking hands, etc!!! It does consume you and make ... | ||
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Bruce D. Frank
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
I can help you figure out if your spouse or lover is cheating. I can also help you deal with the situation; from catching the cheater to healing, or ending the relationship. I tend to be straight forward.
Experience
I have been the victim of a cheater. From the point of suspecting to catching her, to healing; I began to study the subject extensively.
Publications
Mental Diversions - Psychological Profiling
Education/Credentials
BA - Psychology
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