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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| A new friend | 1/20/2008 | Don |
| Q: i want to start a relationship with someone else that i met at work,he knows about my current ... A: You need to make a choice, you'll never be able to get away with dating both of these men over a ... | ||
| How To Go About It? | 1/18/2008 | Don |
| Q: My wife gives me nothing emotionally or sexually. Although I'm not going to leave her (we have a kid ... A: I know you didn't ask but I feel I should tell you, you should never stay in a bad relationship for ... | ||
| Relationship issues | 1/18/2008 | Don |
| Q: My girlfriend of 5 yrs and I decided to have a confessions session. we have a pretty solid ... A: You should know now that she can't be trusted. She had the perfectly chance to tell you everything ... | ||
| Hotels and credit cards | 1/17/2008 | Don |
| Q: My question is this: "When you check into a hotel, they require a credit card. They temporarily ... A: I'm not really an expert on hotels and don't really know anything about the operations or what they ... | ||
| re: cheating | 1/10/2008 | Don |
| Q: I am maried and am attracted to my good friend's wife. I want to start a discrete relationship with ... A: You don't have sex with the wife of your friends, there are to many things that could go wrong. If ... | ||
| okay so he dumped her for me | 1/10/2008 | Don |
| Q: he dumped his girlfriend i havent dumped my boyfriend cause he's out of town in Mexico, but we are ... A: I couldn't tell you why you're addicted to sex, I honestly doubt that you are, many people think ... | ||
| My husband had an affair | 1/9/2008 | Don |
| Q: My husband had an affair and now he wants me to befriend her because he wants to remain her friend. ... A: Please don't tell me you are seriously considering being friends with a woman who had an affair with ... | ||
| Is She Cheating or Am I Paranoid. | 1/9/2008 | Don |
| Q: A while back I started to have an intuition that was cheating, but I do not have anything concrete, ... A: From the second story alone, it appears that you're wife is having an affair or at least has ... | ||
| okay so he dumped her for me | 1/9/2008 | Don |
| Q: he dumped his girlfriend i havent dumped my boyfriend cause he's out of town in Mexico, but we are ... A: No it doesn't mean he'll cheat on you. You might have been a special case where his feelings for you ... | ||
| so confused | 1/9/2008 | Don |
| Q: ok here it is. I have been dating my girlfriend for just over a year now, and things are getting ... A: You've gotten away with it for the past 8 months, you shouldn't tell her at all just keep the secret ... | ||
| I found out she was cheating | 1/9/2008 | Don |
| Q: I had been going out with this girl for about 2 years or so, and one day we decided we had drifted ... A: Your best bet is to completely drop her out of your life. She can't be forgiven because she cheated ... | ||
| how to tell if he is cheating | 1/9/2008 | Don |
| Q: I would like to know what are the signs of a cheater. I have noticed that my boyfriend never picks ... A: Here are some classic signs of a cheater. Never answers his cell phone when he is around you. ... | ||
| Need Advice Please!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 1/8/2008 | Don |
| Q: I have been married for 15 yrs.The last 4 years the intamcy has died totally in my marriage. I have ... A: Don't do it, if you're going cheat on your husband, please do not do it with one of his friends. ... | ||
| what should i do? | 1/7/2008 | Don |
| Q: i was dating this guy 2 years ago and i dumped him on valentines day like a dumb ass that i am he ... A: You shouldn't tell your boyfriend you had sex with this other guy but you should definitely break up ... | ||
| Should I trust him...? | 1/6/2008 | Don |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for seven months now. We met at work, and fell fast for each other. He ... A: It sounds like your boyfriend might be having an affair with his co-worker. People who cheat tend to ... | ||
| So, he's married. | 1/3/2008 | Don |
| Q: I met him online a few months ago and we got along well. I was a virgin then, but wanting to rid ... A: You should feel guilty in the sense that you're sleeping with somebody else's husband and possibly ... | ||
| with who? | 1/2/2008 | Don |
| Q: I've been with my girlfriend for over two years, i think that she is the right girl to marry me, we ... A: If you're going cheat on your girlfriend and still plan on staying with her, then you can't cheat on ... | ||
| So, he's married. | 1/2/2008 | Don |
| Q: I met him online a few months ago and we got along well. I was a virgin then, but wanting to rid ... A: If I were you I would find a less emotional person to have my sexual exploration on, the appears to ... | ||
| shes cheated on me...n wants me back | 1/2/2008 | Don |
| Q: okay...i was with my girlfriend on new years eve and i left her with her friends at about 1 o' clock ... A: If you feel you can never trust her again then you shouldn't be with her. Relationships are built on ... | ||
| I'm not sure of what to do... | 12/30/2007 | Don |
| Q: I do not know if this is the right place to go about my situation, but I am at a loss. Last year at ... A: First off no matter, how much you feel for him and he tells you he feels for you, don't let yourself ... | ||
| Can't accept that he is cheating | 12/28/2007 | Don |
| Q: I find constant profiles being posted and charges on his credit card for dating sites. He finally ... A: It's not technically cheating because he hasn't as far as you know slept with any other women. But ... | ||
| i cheated on my Partner | 12/27/2007 | Don |
| Q: ok, last night i got really drunk while out clubbing with my best friend her boyfriend and his ... A: Tell him and apologize over and over again. If you don't tell him the guilt will eat you alive and ... | ||
| Involved with my ex | 12/27/2007 | Don |
| Q: My ex-boyfriend left me in April 2006. He started dating one of his female customers right away end ... A: Not to hurt your feelings or be to harsh, men cheat on their wives and don't want to leave because ... | ||
| A heart not yet healed. | 12/27/2007 | Don |
| Q: Hey Don, I need assistance in trying to forgive and forget? I am a 24 year old female and have ... A: I can't tell you how to move on or when you should move that has to come from inside of you. You ... | ||
| Jealous for a reason? | 12/27/2007 | Don |
| Q: I am 26, she is 22. We both have had few long relationships in the past. Both of us are not from the ... A: I definitely think you're overreacting. First off about her friends you need to remember that she ... | ||
| Is she cheating? | 12/26/2007 | Don |
| Q: My fiancee has been acting differently over the past few weeks. She has been working long hours and ... A: Sorry to tell you this but I do believe she was cheating on you and not only cheating but cheating ... | ||
| BROKEN HEART! | 12/24/2007 | Don |
| Q: i am a 22 year old man, who Loved his girlfriend with all my heart all my soul, last 2 months, my GF ... A: You need to move on and start dating other people, the quickest way to get over her is to get with a ... | ||
| Help me Out here! | 12/21/2007 | Don |
| Q: I am currently deployed in Iraq and me and my girlfriend have had a good relationship before the ... A: There is nothing you can do to stop her from doing whatever she wants to do because you are so far ... | ||
| Is my Fiance cheating with his female coworker? | 12/20/2007 | Don |
| Q: My fiance started his new job about 10 months ago. Sometimes he would mention the "Lab girls"...so I ... A: There is your proof right there, why would he break down and cry for no reason. He cried because he ... | ||
| cheating | 12/20/2007 | Don |
| Q: I'm really needing help on if I should stay or go. 6 weeks ago I was checking my boyfriends phone ... A: While it's not actually cheating, making plans to cheat is basically the same thing because it means ... | ||
| how to catch a cheat | 12/19/2007 | Don |
| Q: i have dealt woth cheaters before but what is the easyest way to catch them cause i have a feeling ... A: You should spend a day following him around and see where he goes. Make sure it's a day you tell him ... | ||
| Is my Fiance cheating with his female coworker? | 12/19/2007 | Don |
| Q: My fiance started his new job about 10 months ago. Sometimes he would mention the "Lab girls"...so I ... A: I think something is definitely going on between the two of them. The reason she kept looking at the ... | ||
| My ex cheated on his girlfriend, with me. | 12/15/2007 | Don |
| Q: So, a little backround. My ex and I were together for around 3 months on and off. When he broke up ... A: He was just using you for sex, if he really wanted to be with you, he would dump this Brooke girl ... | ||
| Should I Cheat? | 12/11/2007 | Don |
| Q: My boyfriend/fiance lives in another state. I'm thinking of having a 'tease-only' affair with a ... A: Yes you should cheat, it won't hurt anything for you to have a little fun, especially since your ... | ||
| Girlfriend cheated | 12/9/2007 | Don |
| Q: My ex cheated on me and sent me a picture of him and her together, it relaly messed me up. About a ... A: She's just mean and selfish. She cheated on you because she wants whatever she wants whenever she ... | ||
| repost- last guy petered out | 12/8/2007 | Don |
| Q: We are sorry, but J.M. Adam wasn't able to answer yourSince you may have taken pride in yourself for ... A: Any basic psychiatrist should be able to help your ex with his problems. You might want to focus on ... | ||
| I suspect my husband | 12/7/2007 | Don |
| Q: I suspect my husband is having a long distance relationship with someone whom he met while on ... A: Just pretend like you talked to the girl, tell your husband that you called the woman and she ... | ||
| Girlfriend cheated | 12/7/2007 | Don |
| Q: about six months ago i found out the love of my life cheated on me, i found out by getting my door ... A: You either choose to forgive her or you don't, there aren't any other quick options. You'll never be ... | ||
| cheating | 12/5/2007 | Don |
| Q: How would I get my girl friend to tell me if she sleopt with my husband One day I came home she was ... A: Just go to her one day alone and tell her that your husband already told you the truth and you can't ... | ||
| what to do? | 12/5/2007 | Don |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. I have had suspicions of him cheating several ... A: You can long in and say, I sure had fun the other night and see if she will respond to about what ... | ||
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Don
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
I will answer any and all questions when it comes to catching a cheater or ways to get away with cheating.
Experience
I have successfully cheated in 10 out of 10 relationships without ever being caught, so I know all the signs of a person who is cheating and I also know how not to be caught. So if you need help in getting away with cheating or if you suspect your bf/gf or spouse of cheating and want help spotting the signs of a cheater I'm your man.
Education/Credentials
BS in Clinical Psychology
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