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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| cheating strip poker? | 7/15/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: What would happen to a relationship, where the guy has been perfect, then he played strip poker? ... A: At last an honest guy who won't keep, even if sounds miniscule, a thing away from his girl!!! I ... | ||
| My boyfriend cheated twice! | 7/14/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend are in our early 20's and we have been 2gether 4 three years. He cheated on me ... A: First off, I am so sorry for the delay of my response...... I truly hope I can help you out! It ... | ||
| I dont know | 7/12/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: My girlfriend and i have been going out for 3 months. we were brought together by a mutual friend. ... A: Well, sometimes, when people start a new relationship, it is only natural that one would not want ... | ||
| Cover Story for overnight getaway | 7/9/2008 | Don |
| Q: Without using another person as an alibi, what are some good stories that have worked for you in ... A: The problem is my stories won't work for you, the stories can't be generic and will work for ... | ||
| My husband's lies | 7/3/2008 | Don |
| Q: Okay, this is a long story, but I have to tell it all to get a complete answer. My husband has done ... A: First off having a child with someone should never be a reason to get married or stay married. Yeah ... | ||
| boyfriend cheating while pregnant | 7/2/2008 | Don |
| Q: I'm about six months pregnant and recently left my fiance when I caught him cheating on me with my ... A: You don't have a right to tell him who to have in his home or who to be in a relationship with but ... | ||
| Getting over my ex | 6/28/2008 | Don |
| Q: I have been with my ex boyfriend for the last three years on a on and off basis. We have been ... A: You need to stop letting him manipulate you and put your foot down. If you really want to cut him ... | ||
| The Obvious | 6/27/2008 | Don |
| Q: Nine years ago I became the best of friends w/ a man in which after 3 years, we decided to date. It ... A: I wouldn't believe for a second he is done lying or cheating and to be honest why should he stop. ... | ||
| cheating boyfriend | 6/26/2008 | Don |
| Q: i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. I am 21 yrs old now and we have been together since ... A: You start anew by breaking up with this loser you are dating. Your self esteem must be low if you'll ... | ||
| how do i deal with or get over a cheating fiancee | 6/25/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: ive been in a relationship with my now fiancee for 3 1/2 yrs and i admit ive cheated on her very ... A: I think it is time that you both took the time to review this relationship. The fact that you ... | ||
| Open minded, wanting to have an affair | 6/24/2008 | Don |
| Q: I've lived with my boyfriend for four years and dated him for seven. I don't want to break up with ... A: You should be up front and honest with the guy you want to have an affair with. Tell him that you ... | ||
| help im stuck in between 2 girls... | 6/23/2008 | Don |
| Q: look, i recently got back wit my ex.. she cooked 4 me and gave me a place 2 stay when times was ... A: You should pick the one that makes you happier, whichever one you actually enjoy being around the ... | ||
| help im stuck in between 2 girls... | 6/23/2008 | Don |
| Q: look, i recently got back wit my ex.. she cooked 4 me and gave me a place 2 stay when times was ... A: Hey man you have to follow your heart and can't let some sense of loyalty make you stay in a ... | ||
| What do i do? | 6/21/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. I am 17 and she is 15. I haven't been the best ... A: Well, I can honestly tell you, this is not a healthy relationship.....This little love triangle is ... | ||
| Betrayed | 6/16/2008 | Don |
| Q: My fiance and I had known eachother for over 5 years, we had been together for only a month or so ... A: Either get over it or break up with him. You must do one or the other because if you don't get over ... | ||
| Cheater | 6/12/2008 | Don |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together since the beginning of January. We have only been together ... A: Hey if you think he can change then go for it and let the past go. The key to trying to move past ... | ||
| desperate for help | 6/11/2008 | Don |
| Q: My fiance and I got engaged last christmas, and we just moved in together in June. He recently ... A: If you don't feel you can trust him then you need to break up with him or take some time away from ... | ||
| he cheated | 6/9/2008 | Don |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend on and off for about a year and a half. We've been having problems ... A: You don't know and you never will, you just need to make a decision right now for your future. If ... | ||
| Advise with my girlfriend's holiday | 5/27/2008 | Don |
| Q: my name's Chris, I'm 21, a student and for the past 2 years and 4 months I've been with a girl who's ... A: I think you're letting your imagination get the best of you and need to relax and calm down before ... | ||
| cheating | 5/27/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I have been with my partner for 14yrs loyally and have never been with anyone else this woman has ... A: You need to be honest with your girlfriend. If after 14 years, you decided to give up on the ... | ||
| i'm in love with two different people | 5/26/2008 | Don |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and I love him. When we first met, it was like ... A: I don't think it's even possible to love to people at the same time, I think you're just going ... | ||
| is conversating cheating | 5/25/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: if my husband has been conversating with a female behind my back for 6 months & when I caught them ... A: Yes, it is. If he is doing it behind your back, it is considered cheating, in the emotional sense, ... | ||
| confuse | 5/22/2008 | Don |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have like 6 month together and its been great.. But theirs this guy i usto hange ... A: I would say that it does mean you do love or really care about your current boyfriend if it would ... | ||
| Cheating | 5/20/2008 | Don |
| Q: If my boyfriend asks my best friend to flash him, and she has no problem doing it. After she does ... A: Tell your boyfriend to stop putting his head in her lap because it bothers you, also you might want ... | ||
| Cheating | 5/20/2008 | Don |
| Q: If my boyfriend asks my best friend to flash him, and she has no problem doing it. After she does ... A: It's not technically cheating because he didn't do anything physical with her but it is very ... | ||
| He cheated,but I can't forget about him.. | 5/20/2008 | Don |
| Q: I dated a guy for 5 months.Literally the day after we started his psychotic,desperate ex kept ... A: I think he's a liar and a cheat and someone you shouldn't even be wasting your time on. He's already ... | ||
| my boyfriend cheated. | 5/17/2008 | Don |
| Q: I hope you can help me with some advice about my situation. Its such a long complicated story. I am ... A: If I were you I would break up with him because he's a liar and a cheater. You already caught him in ... | ||
| HOW TO DEAL LIVING IN THE SAME HOUSE WITH HIM N HER? | 5/16/2008 | Don |
| Q: WELL ANYWAYS I BEEN MARRIED FOR 2 YEARS NOW AND IT SEEM WE ARE IN A LOT OF DRAMA... I TOLD HIM WE ... A: If he still wanted you, he wouldn't have a girlfriend. You need to divorce this man and move out of ... | ||
| why do guy cheat? | 5/14/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: When a guy tell u that "he love u" why would u go back to ur ex girlfriend? And tell her that you ... A: Only weak men have that issue......Strong men don't have the need to cheat or be confused....All men ... | ||
| Why are all men different on the outside? | 5/14/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I m currently going out with a guy whom I don't know if I really like. I feel he is manipulative and ... A: Sometimes, we tend to confuse co-dependency with the need to be loved.....It is normal to feel ... | ||
| Considering getting back with my ex | 5/14/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: Last October, my girlfriend of 3 and a half years broke up with me out of the blue. I was at the ... A: There you have it....You just stated that you have zero tolerance for cheating.....SO, prepare ... | ||
| boyfriend caught | 5/11/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I have been dating someone for about a year. We have everything in common but never noticed ... A: If I were given a dollar for all the times my ex called his current girlfriend and told her to take ... | ||
| Cheating early in the relationship | 5/11/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I met this guy and really hit it off with him. We ended up talking for hours,etc. After a little ... A: He not only lied and cheated on you......He gave you an STD.....ENOUGH SAID! He doesn't deserve a ... | ||
| Is he a liar? | 5/10/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I met a man on an internet dating site about 4 months ago. He seems like an honest and polite ... A: Well, you may want to sit down and have a serious discussion with him. As far as his suspicious ... | ||
| My boyfriend cheated on me with my friend. | 5/6/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year now. We were the best of friends ... A: If you can't forgive him and move on.....then, you should not be in a relationship......You need to ... | ||
| dealing with cheating? | 5/6/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I have been cheated on alot in my past relationships and I am dating this new girl and I really care ... A: Unless, she has given you a reason to mistrust her...Your past issues have nothing to do with her ... | ||
| My boyfriend cheated on me with my friend. | 5/5/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year now. We were the best of friends ... A: If you really forgave your guy, you wouldn't be dwelling on this mistake.......You are still hurt ... | ||
| Thinking of Cheating, but don't want to | 5/5/2008 | Don |
| Q: I have been with my now wife for 4 years and I love her very much. She is the only woman I have ... A: If you're this guilt ridden over just thinking about cheating then I advise you not to cheat because ... | ||
| Forgive or Forget | 5/4/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I have been with the same man for 7 years. The day before Valentines Day he decided to end the ... A: He needs to move on & so do you. You need to be on your own,. Away from him. He disrespected you and ... | ||
| Is my live in boyfriend cheating? | 5/3/2008 | Don |
| Q: I've known my boyfriend since 1996. He was my client and we had an affair. He had an affair before ... A: It sounds like he has some form of emotional disorder, if he is unable to control his anger this ... | ||
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Melissa Durazo
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Expertise
I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue. I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act.
Experience
I was in a 10 yr. relationship, in which the last 3 years of it was nothing but lies, cheating & emotional abuse. I almost lost my job, my friends and family because I could not let go of this co-dependent relationship. I went through a life changing experience and I came out realizing that I was stronger than I thought I was. I learned that no one is responsible for my happiness and well being. I also learned, that I will make mistakes, I will fall down, but, in the end, it's how I face the problem that will get me through the day.......
Education/Credentials
The school of Life. Life is all the education I have ever needed.
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