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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| catching a sneaky cheat | 9/20/2008 | Don |
| Q: I have tried everything under the sun to catch my bf of 7 years. He started erasing all his cell ... A: If you are so adamant that he is cheating, why are you even still in a relationship with him. What's ... | ||
| Will I always be a cheater? | 9/19/2008 | Don |
| Q: I come to you in desperation. I am a cheater, a dirty no good lying piece of shit cheater. I just ... A: I can't give you tips on how not to cheat, that's something you have to figure out on your own. You ... | ||
| does my bf still has feelings for his ex | 9/18/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: we are together for past 5 months now. initially he used to talk to his ex which he stopped after i ... A: Well, in the end, it's up to you whether you want to believe him or not. And, if you feel he is ... | ||
| boyfriend go caught up!!! | 9/18/2008 | Don |
| Q: my boyfriend kept denying that he was cheating on me.so i got on the computer and went to the girls ... A: I think you should leave him alone, not only has he been cheating on you, he's also be lying to you ... | ||
| does my bf still has feelings for his ex | 9/16/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: we are together for past 5 months now. initially he used to talk to his ex which he stopped after i ... A: I think that there are left over feelings between them. And, since he rushed into a relationship ... | ||
| Should I dump him? | 9/12/2008 | Don |
| Q: I have been with this guy for a few months, we were in the "talking" stage for a very long time and ... A: Since you have talked to him and he refuses to make any changes, I would suggest you dump him. It's ... | ||
| Should I Stay or Go? | 9/12/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been together 2.5 years, we are each other's best friends and this is the ... A: There is no excuse for cheating. And, with today's technology, she could have gotten in touch with ... | ||
| open relationship gone wrong | 9/11/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I am involved with a married man who is in an open relationship for the past several months. At ... A: Open relationships are a little tricky, because, there has to be set boundaries and rules. And, ... | ||
| On and Off Relationship | 9/9/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: i am a 20 year old gay man. i have been with my 25 year old fiance for over a year and a half now. ... A: In any relationship, there has to be boundaries and there has to be respect. Neither, which, your ... | ||
| is she f ing me over too? | 9/8/2008 | Don |
| Q: i have always had trouble finding a good girl, i found someone i seem to like. she is the first girl ... A: I think you should believe her, you have to remember every girl is different and you shouldn't blame ... | ||
| my girl has cheated on me 2 times | 9/7/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: im 19 yrs old , me and my girl been together on and off for 2 yrs . the very first time we dated she ... A: People cheat for all types of reasons. In the end, regardless of the reason, it's unacceptable. ... | ||
| Cheating Husband | 9/6/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I recently found out that my husband was having an emotional affair with a woman he works with and ... A: I think you should read the follow up message you just sent me.....Do you see anything wrong with ... | ||
| Am I doomed to be a cheater? | 9/5/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for a little under a year. We've been together for 2 years. In ... A: If you could tell me what city and state you are in, I would glad to research some options for you. ... | ||
| How to fix when you cheat | 9/5/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: My boyfriend and I are from two different parts of the world and twice when we've been separated ... A: I think that perhaps, you should sit down and have a serious conversation about your relationship ... | ||
| HELP! | 9/5/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: im a 15 yr. old whtie male i go to high school still my freashmen year and my girl friend [disa] ive ... A: This is a lot for me to take in and give advise. Because you are in such a volatile state of mind. ... | ||
| When the man you love cheats | 9/5/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I was in a relationship for two years with someone I was so blindly in love with. He was was world, ... A: I'm going to tell you that a man like that can not change his ways because he constantly uses women ... | ||
| grappling with the prospect of cheating | 8/31/2008 | Don |
| Q: Im 26 and my girlfriend of just over a year is 18. We met at college. It doesnt feel a bit like ... A: Just approach her with it, she's either going to be into it or not. If she isn't you lose nothing ... | ||
| cheating | 8/30/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. He cheated on me once aboiut 2 years ago. Whenm he ... A: The fact that he has used your career choice to blame you for his cheating makes him a real ... | ||
| My Boyfriend cheated on me. | 8/26/2008 | Don |
| Q: ive been with my boyfriend for the past 4 months, he is 19 and im 21. he has and 8 month old son. ... A: You're right if you keep rules on your relationship or don't trust him, he is going eventually get ... | ||
| How do i cheat on him, with his best friend | 8/13/2008 | Don |
| Q: Look i love mii boyfriend but he has this older friend, he's like 23. anyways i like him, i realy ... A: I'm going tell you up front it's damn near impossible to cheat on your boyfriend with his best ... | ||
| Cheated? | 8/13/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I recently returned from a 4 day trip out of town. When me and my girlfriend became intimate and ... A: The only thing I can tell you is that you can not force a confession out of someone. And, at this ... | ||
| Boyfriend Cheating? | 8/10/2008 | Don |
| Q: I was married for 21 years, but with the same man for 26 years. I've been dating a man for eight ... A: I mean I would guess he is still cheating on you, because you have given him the idea that it is ... | ||
| husband tells me what i want to hear | 8/8/2008 | Don |
| Q: I've been married for 5 years with my husband. He is a a couple of years older then me and much more ... A: I think definitely if you feel you can not trust him ever then yes you should leave him. You're ... | ||
| Angry and painfull heart | 8/8/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I am in a situation that i feel stuck and I cant seem to move on. My boyfriend that i've been dating ... A: OMG!!...I'm so sorry...Sometimes, it is hard for me to read very long emails, so I try to condense ... | ||
| I got had! | 8/8/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I was involved with a married guy for over a year. It started off as a physical relationship, but ... A: Getting involved with a married man is only a recipe for disaster. He will never fully commit to you ... | ||
| Cheated? | 8/6/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I recently returned from a 4 day trip out of town. When me and my girlfriend became intimate and ... A: If you and your girl have an open relationship. It is possible she may have been intimate while you ... | ||
| Angry and painfull heart | 8/6/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I am in a situation that i feel stuck and I cant seem to move on. My boyfriend that i've been dating ... A: I'm so sorry you are going through this. You can't be angry at the unborn child, sweetie. It is not ... | ||
| help with an excuse | 8/5/2008 | Don |
| Q: I have a boyfriend I've been dating for quite some time now and we live together. I've never done ... A: I have a few suggestion that may or may not work, depending on your situation. You can use work as ... | ||
| Cheating Boyfriend | 8/5/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I have been dating this guy named Killian for the past year. We met at a gymanstics camp in ... A: Well, sometimes, guys are pretty complicated. And, what they might want one day, they can easily not ... | ||
| she did it while i was in iraq | 8/3/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: basically heres the breakdown. we were engaged and planning our wedding. i have pics of her making ... A: I know exactly how you feel Corey.....But, getting back at her, isn't going to make you feel better. ... | ||
| Cheating Husband | 8/3/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I recently found out that my husband was having an emotional affair with a woman he works with and ... A: He told you because of his "guilt" he wants a divorce? I would have expected counseling, not a ... | ||
| im at a lost!!!please help | 8/3/2008 | Don |
| Q: I have been living in with my boyfriend for almost six months now. He showers me with so much ... A: If I were you I wouldn't give him a second chance because he's endangering your life with his ... | ||
| a younger guy | 7/30/2008 | Don |
| Q: Is there something wrong with an 18 year old girl messing around wih a 14 year old guy? A: I wouldn't say there is anything wrong with it exactly. It does seem a little old and in many states ... | ||
| How to approach him | 7/29/2008 | Don |
| Q: I'm am currently in a relationship with a man I don't love.We aren't even having sex.I started ... A: The fact that he is your ex means you shouldn't have to be smooth, he's already told you he wants to ... | ||
| The joke that my life is! | 7/29/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: I'm a 34 year old married woman. I've had two sexual partners before I got married. The first was ... A: Please forgive the delay in my response....... Well, I do not condone cheating. Even if it ... | ||
| How to approach him | 7/27/2008 | Don |
| Q: I'm am currently in a relationship with a man I don't love.We aren't even having sex.I started ... A: Well you already know that your ex wants to sleep with you, so that's the easy part, all you have to ... | ||
| How do I cheat without getting caught | 7/22/2008 | Don |
| Q: I'm currently engaging in a three way relationship. with my fiance, and two other men. my fiance ... A: Just don't go out in public with the people you are cheating with. Keep the dates you have with them ... | ||
| Ex Wife | 7/22/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
| Q: My Ex Wife begged me to come back for about 2 months then suddenly when they are planning a high ... A: Sometimes, the only way to get over someone is to just let them go. It may sound hard to do. But, we ... | ||
| attracted to another girl but love my current girlfriend. | 7/17/2008 | Don |
| Q: I'm 19 and I have been going out with this girl for about a year and a half now. She refuses to have ... A: Sleep with the other girl and keep it a secret from your girlfriend. Just make sure you do it in a ... | ||
| infidelity | 7/15/2008 | Don |
| Q: i am married for the past 5 years with a son. My husband has this habit of looking at all women al ... A: You can divorce this guy and move on with your life. If you know he is cheating and have proof as ... | ||
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Melissa Durazo
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Expertise
I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue. I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act.
Experience
I was in a 10 yr. relationship, in which the last 3 years of it was nothing but lies, cheating & emotional abuse. I almost lost my job, my friends and family because I could not let go of this co-dependent relationship. I went through a life changing experience and I came out realizing that I was stronger than I thought I was. I learned that no one is responsible for my happiness and well being. I also learned, that I will make mistakes, I will fall down, but, in the end, it's how I face the problem that will get me through the day.......
Education/Credentials
The school of Life. Life is all the education I have ever needed.
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