| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| trouble in paradise | 4/11/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Hey Melissa, me and my girlfriend have been going out for over 2 years, the problem is, she recently ...
A: First and foremost, you need to get to a mental state of calmness. Because, what you just wrote is ...
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| Is it true once a cheat always a cheat? | 4/6/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I am set to get married 5/30/09. My fiancee was married before & cheated on his wife @ the time ...
A: And, he cheated on his first wife with her daughter? Not to mention he has a dating profile while he ...
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| help | 4/2/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: ive been with my girlfriend 4 , 2weeks an i feel like im just bein too clingy with her she liked me ...
A: You need to do whatever you need to do to move on, hun..... In the long run, you will realize that ...
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| Love is painful | 3/31/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years, I love him and care for him but I'm just not ...
A: If your new Mr. Perfect has a girlfriend, then, he isn't quite "perfect" at all, is he? I mean, what ...
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| help | 3/31/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: ive been with my girlfriend 4 , 2weeks an i feel like im just bein too clingy with her she liked me ...
A: I hate to break it to you but, there is no "upper hand" in this situation. Being in a relationship ...
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| cheating/being too clingy | 3/30/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: i have been with my Boyfriend for four years, he just recently cheated on me. we have had problems ...
A: The problem that I see here is that the trust in your relationship is not there. The respect isn't ...
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| Stuck | 3/21/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Well I've been with my boyfriend on and off for about a year. When we first broke up, six months ...
A: First and foremost, I am soooooooo sorry for my delay in replying to your email..... Well, it seems ...
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| Is there such a thing as a fourth chance? | 3/21/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: My ex-fiance wants another chance with me. He says he needs to know if that is something i want. We ...
A: I'm going to be honest with you.....Even I miss my ex boyfriend every once in a while...I guess, you ...
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| Help! | 3/18/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Alright I'll take this from the TOP. I am 17 years old and I met a really great guy who I am happy, ...
A: It seems like you just answered your own question. You don't want a relationship. And, you're ...
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| is he cheating | 3/17/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Is my man cheating? Once I can home there was a girls cell phone on the floor of our bedroom.He said ...
A: Well, for one thing, finding a cell phone number doesn't mean he is cheating. And, if he wants sex ...
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| I dont know what to do or what to think? | 3/4/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I am 19 and I am dating a guy who is 26. I have been dating him for like five months so far, but ...
A: I can see your concern. Let me tell you something about men. They know from the start whether or not ...
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| to cheat or not to cheat | 3/3/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Been with my man 10 years, married 4. Adore him. Just contacted by an old crush. My big 'one that ...
A: It's been 10 years...You have a family, a husband. We ALL have our Mr. Big......And, if we could ...
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| I want to cheat! | 3/2/2009 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. He cheated on me when our daughter was only 2 ...
A: In all honesty? I think it is best to be honest with yourself and with your boyfriend and end this ...
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| Guilt | 12/22/2008 | Don |
Q: I have a lovely, sweet, gentle, caring boyfriend, who I am about to move in with. A week ago, I ...
A: No the pain from the guilt will not overwhelm you and yes it will go away, all it takes is time. You ...
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| help | 12/12/2008 | Don |
Q: I have been in a relationship for 5 1/2 year with this guy on and off and we live together. I have ...
A: Arguing everyday is more harmful to a child then his parents just breaking up. If a child sees the ...
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| I think my bf is cheating | 12/12/2008 | Don |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months now and just moved in together. He moved here ...
A: Well I think he is cheating and you have all the proof you need in an e-mail. Why would he be ...
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| Cheating girlfriend.... | 12/10/2008 | Don |
Q: Ugh, i feel quite awkward talking on here, but here it goes. im 20 years old, and im fairly well ...
A: If it is true that your friend slept with her you need to find a new girl and a new friend because ...
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| Do not want to cheat and Confused!!! | 12/10/2008 | Don |
Q: I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. Recently, a guy I used to date ...
A: If you don't want to cheat, then you definitely need to stop talking to Mr. X. But to me it sounds ...
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| He cheated but I still like him? | 12/6/2008 | Don |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a month now and last night he took me aside and told me how the ...
A: If you feel he's genuine and he's going be honest then take him back. I do subscribe to once a ...
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| i think i am the other woman (20 y/o) | 11/25/2008 | Don |
Q: We are sorry, but Jen wasn't able to answer yourOk...so i have this friend...and two years ago when ...
A: It's not cheating unless the two of you are doing something sexual, if you are just hanging out as ...
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| I've lost all trust in him and I'm miserable | 11/24/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: Lets just start with alittle background information. He's 29 and I'm 22. We met when he was ...
A: Trust is the #1 important thing in a relationship..Without trust, you have nothing to base your ...
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| cheating both ways | 11/23/2008 | Melissa Durazo |
Q: im his mistress, i feel im cheated so i cheated, now he doesnt forgive me. He was my boss,i always ...
A: Ask yourself this question......Why would you want someone who would cheat on his wife, someone he ...
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| Texting and Cheating | 11/21/2008 | Don |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend on and off for about 3 years. I have been unhappy for about a year, ...
A: Texting somebody and hugging them isn't cheating so you haven't crossed the line yet. If you ...
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| Should i?? | 11/18/2008 | Don |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months now and he is great! we are amazing! we get ...
A: If you really want to be with your boyfriend and really make the relationship work you should tell ...
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| He cheats on his girlfriend with me and i love him | 11/18/2008 | Don |
Q: To cut the length of this mad story: we were together for 7 months on an internet relationship ...
A: I wouldn't tell his girlfriend because that's not going get him to come back to you. You need to cut ...
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| love | 11/16/2008 | Don |
Q: how can i beleive my girl is vergine... she is from a village . i asked her once about all these.. ...
A: Unless you're a trained doctor, it's going be pretty hard for you to tell if your girl is a virgin. ...
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| What is this? | 11/16/2008 | Don |
Q: I am looking for advice on how I should approach a situation that may look like one thing (cheating) ...
A: I agree with your friends, if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck then it's a duck. Bad ...
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| Am I A Cheater? | 11/16/2008 | Don |
Q: I'm a 22 year old woman and I am an andrologist. I've been dating my current boyfriend for about a ...
A: As long as you don't cross the line and become unprofessional with your patients then you are not ...
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| husband cheated | 11/15/2008 | Don |
Q: My husband and I had a long distance relationship before getting married. He always insisted on ...
A: Cheating on him isn't going solve any problems and more than likely in will make you feel worse not ...
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| How to get rid of a cheater | 11/13/2008 | Don |
Q: My BF and I have lived together for 5 years in my home. He has cheated on me 3 times since we've ...
A: First off he shouldn't be your boyfriend anymore, you need to end that relationship. He is nothing ...
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| hypocrite | 11/7/2008 | Don |
Q: I was reading some of your answers. In some answers, you ask people to divorce if they are cheated ...
A: No why would I be a hypocrite, I never said I thought cheating was wrong, I just explain to people ...
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| the other woman | 11/7/2008 | Don |
Q: I belong in a social group and theres a man I am interested in. I heard from other friends that he ...
A: If the person is a friend of yours that he dated before then you need to tell him and her about the ...
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| help | 11/4/2008 | Don |
Q: I cheated on my boyfriend a year ago. He found out from people at school a couple days later (the ...
A: The only thing you can do to help him know you won't ever cheat again is to show him you're not ...
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| married, but can't stop cheating with my ex | 11/3/2008 | Don |
Q: Hey. i'm really confused, and i don't know what to do. i don't like to think that I am a bad person ...
A: I think he is a man and that as long as you continue to have sex with him, he'll stay around. It's ...
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| I hope you can help me! I'm a cheater | 10/30/2008 | Don |
Q: I've been with my lover for 16 years and his wife finally found out. My lovers wife refuse to leave ...
A: I think you should take your mom up on here offer. This guy is never going be with only you. If he ...
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| Did my husband cheat? | 10/17/2008 | Don |
Q: I have been married for 2 1/2 years. My husbands exgirlfriend called angry because one of my son's ...
A: I can't really tell from this information, it would do you best to just ask your husband what ...
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| He cheated. | 10/17/2008 | Don |
Q: My boyfriend broke up with me for a week recently. During that time he would text me everyday asking ...
A: If it had only happened once then I would say give him a second chance but seeing as how he did it ...
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| i cheated on my boyfriend 3 times | 10/9/2008 | Don |
Q: me and my boyfriend spilt up about a month and half ago because i found out he cheated on me with my ...
A: I suggest you don't tell him and just call it equal. Him cheating on you with one of your mates is ...
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| Cheating | 10/8/2008 | Don |
Q: My boyfriend leaves like three days at a time and he says that he was in jail but refuses to tell me ...
A: Stop asking him questions and just break up with him. It's obviously that he is cheating on you so ...
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| Torn between 2 | 9/25/2008 | Don |
Q: I knew this was coming to be honest, but i never knew i would be this bad. Im 16 years old, a virgin ...
A: I can't tell you who to choose but I can give you some advice. If you want a life of adventure and ...
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