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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Husband is convinced I cheated. I didn't! How do I convince him? | 5/17/2007 | Don |
| Q: Ok, I will try to make this as short as possible. I am 30 years old, married for 10 years, with 4 ... A: I don't know how you could convince him any other way, unless he wants you to sit down and take a ... | ||
| Infidelity | 5/16/2007 | Don |
| Q: I have been involved with a much older man for about 10 years. In that time, he had moved in with ... A: Let's say he was a sex addict, that would explain his need for constant sex, not his lack of ... | ||
| Infidelity | 5/16/2007 | Don |
| Q: I have been involved with a much older man for about 10 years. In that time, he had moved in with ... A: I know it's hard to accept but you already know the answer to this question. He isn't going to ... | ||
| I think that my husband is cheating on me | 5/16/2007 | Don |
| Q: I think that my husband is cheating on me, but I don't know how to prove it or caught him, can you ... A: If you have the time and patience, the easiest thing to do is follow him. Make sure it's a day when ... | ||
| my girl friend has changed | 5/16/2007 | Don |
| Q: how do i know that my girl friend is cheating on me?we have a son and i have lost my job.she has ... A: How has she changed. Is she lying about where she's going? Does she go out at odd times? When you ... | ||
| i have cheated-but no guilt? | 5/16/2007 | Don |
| Q: Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year now. and everything is just perfect. beyond so. i suppose ... A: Honestly it means that you're a little selfish. You're putting your own personal desires and ... | ||
| all i can think about | 5/16/2007 | Don |
| Q: I live with my boyfriend of a year and recently two friends (a boy and a girl) from our hometown ... A: Just go ahead and break up with him, he already cheated on you by your own definition when he made ... | ||
| he cheated | 5/15/2007 | Don |
| Q: i have been with my boyfriend for a year and on our aniversary he had sex with someone else. he is ... A: You should only give him a second chance if you believe that he is really sorry for his mistake. If ... | ||
| I've cheated | 5/13/2007 | Don |
| Q: I cheated on my boyfriend in Jan 07. I recently told him this month in May. Since the night I ... A: It all depends on if he really has forgiven you for what you've done. Your only hope of this ... | ||
| zRf=2; | 5/12/2007 | Don |
| Q: alrite I have a complex one. I have a girlfriend who I have been with on and off for about 4 years. ... A: It sounds like the two of you need some time apart. Maybe the stress of the relationship and the ... | ||
| Is she cheating? | 5/11/2007 | Don |
| Q: I don't date people outside of chat rooms, for one, I dislike people. Alot. So, I'm dating a girl ... A: I'm not really sure of the rules of online dating, if she has actually met the other guy and slept ... | ||
| Please help! | 5/10/2007 | Don |
| Q: First I wanted to give you a brief background. I am from India and have had an arranged marriage. We ... A: I'm not saying just to move on and let it go, your feelings are valid and I do believe they should ... | ||
| Do I confront him? | 5/10/2007 | Don |
| Q: I have known my current boyfriend for 4 years and we have recently started dating. I asked him if ... A: It's cool to confront him but at the same time you don't want him to know you were sneaking in his ... | ||
| WHAT SHOULD I DO? | 5/10/2007 | Sam E |
| Q: I have dated a my current boyfriend for 2yrs and months. We have great times together. I found out ... A: You tell him after you thought about it you realize that it is too much to handle and there will ... | ||
| Do I have a right to be upset about this??? | 5/9/2007 | Don |
| Q: I can't believe it, but I am still pissed about this!!! This is very complicated. I am divorced ... A: If you really want to be with this woman, and want the relationship to work, I suggest you move on. ... | ||
| WHAT SHOULD I DO? | 5/9/2007 | Sam E |
| Q: I have dated a my current boyfriend for 2yrs and months. We have great times together. I found out ... A: Having a one night stand is a lot different than carrying on an affair for over a year. At 27 he is ... | ||
| do i love my ex | 5/8/2007 | Don |
| Q: How do you no if you and you're ex should get back together A: There are a lot of factors as to if the two of you should get back together. Why did you guys break ... | ||
| Betrayal and moving On | 5/7/2007 | Don |
| Q: Any suggestions on how I can trust my own judgement again? I’m ready to move on but I find it so ... A: I know it's hard but don't fall into that mode of blaming all men or assuming all men are like that ... | ||
| Once a cheater ... | 5/7/2007 | Don |
| Q: My husband of 6 1/2 years recently disclosed to me that he was unfaithful. I knew there was another ... A: When I say once a cheater, always a cheater, for the most part I believe it is true, especially if ... | ||
| Betrayal and moving On | 5/6/2007 | Don |
| Q: Any suggestions on how I can trust my own judgement again? I’m ready to move on but I find it so ... A: First off I can't understand how you haven't already moved on, after the way he treated you and the ... | ||
| unsure if cheated during a blackout | 5/6/2007 | Don |
| Q: i have a boyfriend of almost 3 years who i love very much and who i have never cheated on before. ... A: Since you don't have any definite proof, that you did anything, I wouldn't bring it up to your ... | ||
| how to deal with cheating | 5/6/2007 | Don |
| Q: i cheated on my partner and she took me back but all she can do is think about what I've done we ... A: There aren't any words you can say to convince her, you just have to show her through your actions. ... | ||
| why did I cheat just for hot sex , I love her | 5/6/2007 | Sam E |
| Q: I'm a 40 year old man I met this girl in 2000 we work together in law enforcement i was a sergeant ... A: I suggest you sit down with your girlfriend and have a sex talk with her. She will never know what ... | ||
| He cheated on me.. | 5/4/2007 | Don |
| Q: im 18 years old and i have been goin out with my boyfriend for a year and nine months. He had ... A: Please tell me you are kidding! There is only one thing to do, leave this guy and forget about him. ... | ||
| has He cheated on me? | 5/3/2007 | Don |
| Q: He was at a party invited me, He went an got a chick for his friend the cop's where comeing so me ... A: Is this a serious question? What do you think happened? Why would your boyfriend even sleep in the ... | ||
| I feel hurt all the time.. | 5/3/2007 | Don |
| Q: anyways..back in late january to early february she started acting realy strange. You see, we were ... A: Eddie you made a difficult choice when you chose to forgive your girlfriend and continue to stay in ... | ||
| So confused | 5/3/2007 | Sam E |
| Q: I've know this girl since we were 10. She was my first crush and puppy love girlfriend. At 16 we ... A: Well there is not much you can do but get over it. I know it's hard but you are the only one ... | ||
| i cheated | 5/2/2007 | Don |
| Q: Im 19 and my girlfriend just turned 16 me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and 4 ... A: All I can tell you to do is apologize to her and promise her that it won't happen again, then you ... | ||
| Should I move on this fast? | 4/30/2007 | Don |
| Q: I was in a reletionship with a girl for 4 months, we did love each other. Bu the other night she had ... A: It's normal. I find a lot of times that when ones person cheats on the other person, the person who ... | ||
| am i a paranoid android? | 4/30/2007 | Don |
| Q: My boyfriend is a very, very friendly guy who works with a lot of other women. He has heaps of girl ... A: I wouldn't be worried if I were you. From what you are saying your boyfriend seems like a pretty ... | ||
| cheating in a past relationship affecting a new one | 4/28/2007 | Don |
| Q: I just started casually seeing a girl in April. She was out of town for the weekend visting friends. ... A: First off you don't owe and explanation to the friends, if you want to give them one that's fine but ... | ||
| My girlfriend cheated on me with my friend | 4/25/2007 | Don |
| Q: I gave a friend of mine my girlfriend's number while we were broken up. I didn't think he was ... A: Okay even if you give her the benefit of the doubt for having sex with the guy while the two of you ... | ||
| My girlfriend cheated on me with my friend | 4/25/2007 | Don |
| Q: I gave a friend of mine my girlfriend's number while we were broken up. I didn't think he was ... A: I know you love her but I think you should break up with her and move on, because she isn't very ... | ||
| my girlfriend is cheating | 4/22/2007 | Don |
| Q: so I wrote and asked about her going to vegas with hir girlfriends for the weekend and never calling ... A: Hey once a cheater always a cheater. You said she left somebody to get with you, so why wouldn't you ... | ||
| Got cheated on! | 4/21/2007 | Sam E |
| Q: I will explain it all out for you. With where I work I got to travel occasionally for a couple ... A: Since you have forgiven her you have to move past this. Let it go. If you keep bringing it up it ... | ||
| My Girlfriend Has Cheated On Me Many Times What Do I Do? | 4/20/2007 | Don |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now. Last June she went un north to stay with her ... A: So you'd rather be with a person who cheats on you repeatedly, then not be with her. I don't know ... | ||
| My Girlfriend Has Cheated On Me Many Times What Do I Do? | 4/20/2007 | Don |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now. Last June she went un north to stay with her ... A: You have two choices. One leave her and be done with it. But since you said you don't want to do ... | ||
| boy vs. boy | 4/18/2007 | Don |
| Q: I was going out with a boy named Corey for about 5 weeks then all usuden he wants to break up with ... A: You can start by telling your ex-boyfriend, that you aren't interested in a relationship with him, ... | ||
| so confuses | 4/18/2007 | Don |
| Q: hey there well here is the problem. i have been with a guy for a little over a year, come to find ... A: You don't have to be in a relationship with this guy to raise a child together, those two things ... | ||
| serioua problem | 4/14/2007 | Don |
| Q: ~~>This started in November 2006, I have a FRIEND that introduced me to a woman, who needed here ... A: First off you need to get some kind police action involved with your crazy ex girlfriend. A ... | ||
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Don
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
I will answer any and all questions when it comes to catching a cheater or ways to get away with cheating.
Experience
I have successfully cheated in 10 out of 10 relationships without ever being caught, so I know all the signs of a person who is cheating and I also know how not to be caught. So if you need help in getting away with cheating or if you suspect your bf/gf or spouse of cheating and want help spotting the signs of a cheater I'm your man.
Education/Credentials
BS in Clinical Psychology
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