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Me and my boyfriend has been together for 11 months, but I knew him when I was 7. Everything in our relationship is great and he says that all the time. We don't argue alot, we have chemistry and we tell each other everything. We even go to strip clubs together but i made another guy eat me out because he doesn't do it. Now one month later he made a girl give him head and she gave him gonnarea and i have it too. I am so angry and i don't know if i should stay or leave. Oh i forgot to mention that he had chalymida before he met me and when we did it he gave it to me too. I feel like my life is at risk with him. I know he didn't know he had chalmida before so i forgave him but what should i do
Sarah
SEX IS NOT WORTH DYING FOR!!!!
This is really serious stuff…..you know that one day is Chlamydia and the next day he can come home to you with aids, and faster than you know it, you are dying ,!!! I am sure you know this but I don’t think you realize how dangerous the situation you are in really is.
Besides, if you are cheating on him and he is cheating on you, is obvious the relationship is not going to last so why stay and get more diseases, when you could be single and looking for a better prospect…one that won’t cheat on you or that is clean for that matter, think about it,
What would happen if you keep getting these diseases? , What if you met someone that you really liked and then had to tell them the amount of times you have been treated for STD’s? If I was a guy and you told me, even if I was the nicest guy, I would run… and trust me any men would.
So don’t ruin your chances of having a good life, for a guy that doesn’t respect you or care about you and your health, I know that you may have some good times together but there are a lot more men out there that could show you a good time without any side effects, just keep looking and remember that having sex is not a game is your life you are putting on the line, Sarah!
If you need anything let me know at Andrea70s@hotmail.com.
Love yourself , try to be safe,
Andrea
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Andrea
Expertise
I can answer questions about relationships and cheating. I have an insight on why women cheat and an understanding on how relationships can be destroyed as a consequence of cheaters actions. I can also answer any questions on the kind of interactions cheaters have with their other partner and what it feels like to be in that position. Most of the time we see cheating only on the perspective of the person being hurt and betrayed by their partner but I can offer the other perspective, the perspective of what the cheater goes through the thoughts and emotions involved with cheating.
Experience
I have talked to a lot of men and women that have either cheated or have been cheated on, and I have been in both situations.
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