Expert: Don - 6/7/2007

Question
Me and my best friend have a thing for each other. But when I told him that I liked him he already had a girl. Over time we ended up hangin out and he ended up cheating on her with me. But he didn't break up with her. Then over Spring Break we started going together and when Spring Break was over and we were back in school everyone had a big problem with it cuz we're interacial so we broke up. But we still mess around and him and his ex ex girlfriend  got back together. I try talking to him about it and tellin him that I don't think he should cheat on her but everytime he's around and he wants to do something i just can't help but to do it. I need some serious advice on this.  

Answer
Here is my advice stop letting him use you. He couldn't stand the pressure of having a relationship with you because of the interracial thing, but he has no problem sleeping with you behind his girlfriend's back.

If you want to be with him, then tell him you need to be with him and not to just have sex with him whenever he wants to. Don't be his girl on the side, it's makes you look bad and a little slutty.

So stop hooking up with the guy unless you plan on making him your boyfriend or at least until he breaks up with his girlfriend.

I hope this helped and good luck