Expert: Don - 8/1/2007

Question
i've been with my boyfriend for two years now, and we've been living together for a year and a half. throughout that time i've had a curiousity about being with another woman, which he knew all about. He said it was fine with him as long as he could be there whenever it happened. Well i recently went out with a girlfriend and at the end of the night we "explored" our curiousity and were caught in the act by my boyfriend. now he hates me, he's completely devastated and doesnt trust me. he told me that i can never see her again. now he wants to move out. what could i possibly do to make things right with him? was this totally unforgivable on my part?

Answer
The only thing you can really do is apologize to him over and over again. Just tell him you know you made a mistake and you regret it. You're sorry for what you did and you promise that you'll never do it again.

After that all you can do is hope that he forgives you. And then time will fix things eventually, you just have to make sure you don't make this mistake again if he does decide to take you back.

I hope this helped and good luck.