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I was in a reletionship with a girl for 4 months, we did love each other. Bu the other night she had sex with her ex (who was also my friend) =/ this was my first girlfriend and as you can imagine it hurt alot, but I remember this girl a while back and I want to make a move on her, the problem is we've split for less than 2 days and I'm already over her =| is this normal?

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It's normal. I find a lot of times that when ones person cheats on the other person, the person who was cheated on loses their feelings for the person who cheated almost immediately. It's something that happens when that person breaks your trust.

I think it's a good idea that you are moving on, what would be the point of feeling bad about losing a girl who cheated on you anyway. She's not worth the time.

So make a move on this new girl.

I hoped this helped and good luck

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