Expert: Don - 8/1/2007

Question
Hi i have had a boyfriend for 2 1/2 years but for he is in prision now he was there for 9 months a year ago(I NEVER CHEATED ON HIM IN THOSE 9 MONTHS),and now he is back there and he has been gone for 3 months and the other night i got really drunk and cheated on him, i feel awful but i dont want to tell him b/c i will loose him for good, i dont ever plan on seeing this other guy again in fact he called me the other day and i told him never to call me again.....this guy lives 45min away from where my b/f and i are from, do you think by b/f will find out? Should i tell my boyfriend, or just let it go because it didn't mean anything to me and it will never happen again? i really love my boyfriend and i dont want to loose him! i NEED ADVICE...BC IM GOING CRAZY!

Answer
Why are you so worried about losing a guy who keeps going to jail anyway. What do you care? He's a jailbird, you should be happy that he would break up with you.

But that's not what you asked me, if I were you I wouldn't tell him especially if you don't plan on seeing this other guy again. Just keep the secret and act like things are still the same, just don't let it happen again.