Expert: Don - 4/11/2007

Question
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years and I always have trust issues with him. Everytime I confront him about things he keep denying them. How can I catch this lying, cheating, slick, smart and sneaky man. I want to stop wasting my time and I want to catch him for good before I move on.

Answer
First off I don't understand why you would even care if you caught him or not if you're leaving him anyway and don't trust the guy. Just leave him and call it a day.

But since you want to catch him so bad I guess I can give you a few tips, that's why I'm here.

For one you're going need an attractive female that is willing to help you out. It has to be somebody he doesn't know, and all you have to do is find out a place he is going be at a certain time, and get her to go there and flirt with him. Get her to try and get his number or her to give her number to him. Chances are if he asks for her number or takes a number she's giving him, he'll go further. If that isn't enough proof for you get the girl to actually go out with him on date and when they go out just show up at the place and confront him to his face. There is no way he could deny something like that.

If you want to do something a little less time consuming, all you need is a big envelope, stuff it with paper and show it to him. Don't let him open it just hold it in your hand, and tell him that you had him followed and that inside the envelope are pictures of him kissing another women. Most people if they are guilty of something are to dumb to ask to see the pictures, they'll just admit to the crime because they know they did it, so they figure the pictures must be real. You must be a good bluffer to do this though, because if he doesn't believe you from the start it won't work.

I hope this helped and good luck