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I need help to find out if my boyfriend is cheating on me. He's been going in the other room when he talks on the phone, I found 2 condoms in his coat pocket and a "female condom". I know he's cheating, I just need proof. I'm thinking about bugging his phone, do you know of any cheap devices that would work??

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He’s cheating! What more proof do you need than private calls and condoms? Tell him you know he’s cheating and your done! Don’t let him try and say he’s not. Stand firm. He’ll crack and than you can get all the information you are looking for.
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Is he/she cheating? The signs of a cheater are obvious if you know what to look for. If you think your mate is cheating ask me. I can also help you heal after being cheated on. If you are thinking about cheating but need help so you will NOT, I can try and help you. Please do NOT ask me how to cheat and get away with it. Cheating is hurtful and I do not condone it.

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I have spent years studying relationships. I also have done some research on why people cheat and what to look for if you think they are.

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A degree in Psychology and certified in handling crisis and counseling

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