Expert: Don - 4/30/2007

Question
My boyfriend is a very, very friendly guy who works with a lot of other women. He has heaps of girl friends and thinks nothing of hanging out with them and catching up for drinks regularly. OK, so he usually invites me, but I can't help feeling insecure and paranoid, especially as these girls are gorgeous glamazons. He's known as a pretty sweet, honest and amicable guy, but he's actually told me he's a bit of a flirt, and i've noticed he always sends kisses at the end of his texts to the girls (yes, I admit, I checked his phone once.)Even though I've never found him hiding anything, I have a hopeless case of the green-eyed monster. Should I be worried?

Answer
I wouldn't be worried if I were you. From what you are saying your boyfriend seems like a pretty stand up guy. He isn't trying to hide the fact that he is friends with these women from you and even invites you to go along occasionally. These aren't really the actions of a guy who is trying to cheat or get away with something behind your back. I say give him the benefit of the doubt and unless you find some kind of real proof, assume that he isn't cheating.

I hoped this helped and good luck