Expert: John Mayer - 8/15/2004

Question
i like this guy, and he says he has feeling for me but i think he's a player.i'm a VERY good looking girl and everyone says i can do better but i like him a lot. how can i get him to want me more?..should i play "hard to get" or will he just forget about me?

Answer
Samantha,

Id appreciate it if you rated my answer.

Thanks
John





Samantha,

You dont go into detail about how or why you think the guy you like is a player, so i cant answer to that. Nevertheless I must say that you should never draw a correlation between being "very goodlooking" and whether or not you should date a guy. Your friends opinions are just that "opinions" therefore you should do what makes you happy and accept the fact you know YOU best. If he is a player then you will eventually discover this fact and handle the situation accordingly.

Oh and playing hard to get only leads to a unhappy and very lonely girl. Tell him how you feel and let the relationship begin.

Hope this helps

John